Spankso Question

First of all, you people in blogland, are AMAZING.  The comments to my post yesterday when I was so upset, the emails, the love and hugs you all sent, THANK YOU!  And I just loved how everyone supported Jan too, just shows what a great place this is. :)

So the other day I called myself a Spankso, and got some questions here and there about it.  Spankso is not a real term, just one I made up for myself.

In all actuality, it's all Tess' fault that I came up with the term.  So feel free to blame her, I do. ;)  {just kidding, Tess. ;)}  Here is the original post I did to it, and it links to her blog post there that started the whole thing. ;)  http://submittingtobeled.blogspot.ca/2013/05/im-spankso.html

To those that were around for the first post I did on this, sorry for the repeat on some ideas here.

So basically, this is why.

I'm not a spanko.  If this term is new to you, basically, from what I understand, it is someone that really likes being spanked.  Rarely will I ask the Duke for a spanking.  A few times I have in a playful way, a few times in a need to get my head on straight kind of way, but that's only been a few times.  I don't get all excited or happy knowing a spanking will be happy generally.

Yet, I'm not a spankno.  If this term is new to you, basically, from what I understand, it is someone that really dislikes being spanked.  Now, I don't like being spanked on the whole, but I don't hate it either.  It plays a real role in my marriage, and without it, DD would not be as effective for us.  It isn't our whole world, but still plays an important part.

So I'm somewhere in the middle.  I can't be a spanko and be honest with where I am in all this.  I can't be a spankno because I need this lifestyle too much.  So where did that leave me?

I realized, I am spanked so that I can get stress relief, spanked so that I can get rid of guilt, spanked so I remember who is in charge, spanked so I can make right wrongs I have done, and the list just goes on and on.  Basically, my quote is, "Spanked So My Marriage Works."

So, I started calling myself a Spankso.  :)  So there you have it.  I'm not really a spanko, not really a spankno, I'm a spankso.  I decided a few months ago I was proud of being one, so I made that silly paddle you see to the right of the blog.  It's who I am. 

I'm spanked so my marriage works.  That's it in a nutshell. :)

Hopefully that makes sense to anyone that asked me about it.  And yes, calling myself this probably shows how much of a geek/nerd I really am.  Oh well, you were going to find out at some point anyway. ;)

Have a great weekend everyone.  And again, thank you for your support last night and today, it just, meant so much to me.

PS, the Duke saw this post, and came at me with Blondie's pocket paddle, laughing and said, "We'll make sure you're a spankno after tonight."  STINKER!