Just a question for tonight....
My husband thought that maybe during our last maintenance that he spanked too hard.
Tonight's though I feel may not have been enough.
How do you know if a spanking is too hard? And is there a general rule of thumb for how many spanks there should at least be? We usually only go to about 60, if that, but in reading some posts, it seems like it could be a couple hundred???
I guess we just really don't know what is typical, and how to know how hard is safe? Or effective?
I know most of these are trial and error, and we will learn ourselves as we go, but if anyone has been through this wondering themselves or has any advice to pass on, I'd love it. :)
Will tell you about maintenance from tonight in the morning. For now, I'm just too tired.
I hope you all have a wonderful night! :)