Tuesday, December 25, 2018

Merry Christmas! New Spanking Toys. :)

Technically, we did wait until Christmas Day to exchange these. :)  1:30am counts, right?  I woke up, and the Duke was still awake, so away we went. :)  I made the Duke the whip type implement, far right, and a carpet beater to replace the single strand white coax cable one we've had for years that is about to split in places.  This one should last forever.  He got this little crop for us to try, our first ever.  One side is velvet, the other side is leather.  It's short, but gives us an idea if we want a longer one.  Um, the velvet side feels like nothing, no matter how hard he used it.  lol  But the whip, let's say that is a BE VERY CAREFUL toy.  It has quite a bit of bend to it, and is nylon covered steel cable (thin clothesline).  It feels good though to be sitting on a warm bottom after he tried them all out, especially the whippy one. :)  I got a thorough bottom toasting, and ready to ring in Christmas in the morning all stress free. :)

It's hard to see here, but the whip doesn't have a string winding around it, it's actually figured 8 around both strands to hold them together, so a string goes between the strands every time you see it wrap around.  It looks more like it's braided in real life. :)

I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas. :)  I still tire very easily, so I have not been blog hopping, sorry.  But I do promise to try to catch up a bit this weekend. :)

Today is the last challenge.  If you played along any, I hope you had some fun. :)  Let me know if there was anything you really liked.  Didn't like.  Would like to add if we do it again.  Merry Christmas. :)

Day 25 - Tuesday - CHRISTMAS DAY
- You made it. 
- Gift your loved one with the implement you bought or made, and with the shorter letter from day 14. 
- Wear the outfit they picked for you on the 19th if you didn't last night. 
- Find time tonight if possible to try out your new toys, or make plans to as soon as possible. 
- Spend a few minutes in each other's arms, being thankful for the blessing of each other on top of all your blessings today.



Monday, December 24, 2018

Carrying An Implement :)

Tomorrow's the Day.  And you people around the world, some of you are already in Christmas Day. :)

We didn't get to every day of the Advent, but we got to many of them, and I have to admit, it was so much fun, and kept the Duke and I bonded during a stressful and sick time where we normally would have drifted apart.  So thankful we had this to help. :)

Merry Christmas, Everyone! :)  I'll probably post date tomorrow's post so that I make sure it gets up with all of the craziness. :)  Today's challenge is another one from the lovely Baker. :)

Day 24 - Monday
- Have your Hoh choose an implement for you to keep with you all day.  Something small enough to keep in your purse or briefcase, or perhaps a toy either worn on your body or in your pocket to remind you of who's in charge. 
- Wear the outfit your partner picked for you on the 19th if it was for today and not tomorrow.
- Top the day off with a quick spanking with the implement you carried around all day, even just a few swats for fun and connection after a busy day. 
Tomorrow is the big day! :)

Sunday, December 23, 2018

Kinky Advent - Guess The Sensation :)

Two days.  Can you believe it?  I was going to have presents wrapped by now, and the house clean, and getting so sick took care of that.  Well, the house is mostly clean.  Presents, we don't get much for each other, even for baby girl, so that won't take too long.  Just got to do it up tonight.

Tomorrow we're baking a cake for Jesus, saying thank you for Him being born, going to play with the Little People nativity set we have, read the Christmas story, Christmas Eve service, and try to set our focus for the day.  I just find with so many visitors and things to do on Christmas Day, that I fail if I try to make Him the focus on that day because it gets so busy, so we're doing it the day before this year and see how it goes. :)

It is so cold right now, that the thought of today's challenge makes me shiver.  Maybe I'll do it on the Duke instead.  :P

Day 23 - Sunday
- Guess the sensation.  Cool, cold, warm, hot, sharp, soft, velvety, feathery, hard, rough etc.  One of you is blind folded, the other at their mercy.  Can you guess them all?  No matter where they’re used on your body?  (I will put up a list of items you may have around the house on the 21st to help play this game with a warning not to read the list if you're the one who this will be played on. hehe)  To mix this up, bind them.  Or constantly work on arousing your partner while making them guess.  Every time they guess wrong, or take too long, stop playing, or playfully spank them, until they guess right.

Merry Christmas.  In 48 hours, if not sooner depending on where you live, you'll probably be opening Christmas gifts!  Have fun with your loved ones and hoping you all have a MERRY CHRISTMAS.  :)

PS, behind two days in comments, hope to get to them this afternoon.  :)  But for now, about to leave the house. :)

Saturday, December 22, 2018

Playing Doctor Was Amazing!

Playing doctor was AMAZING. My doctor, however, was HIGHLY unethical. I'll have to check for his license next time. :P  He was very thorough, I'll admit that much. Every cavity was searched, and no area left unexplored.  He even had to descale my back apparently. (back scratch, that was heavenly) lol I left a very satisfied patient. :P

Hope you guys don't hate me after today. :) I'm a little weary of it. LOL Especially since the Duke believes that all spankings should be hard. LOL

Day 22 - Saturday
- We're in the home stretch, and hitting the most stressful time before Christmas.  It's time for the trifecta to help let it all out.  Hohs, get your tih to pick out her favourite implement, her least favourite, and one you choose.  25 swats with each.  To mix it up, try one with her standing against a wall, one leaning over the bed, and one over your lap.

Three days until the big day!  I have the toy/implement (have to say both because the Duke ready EVERY post) ready for Christmas morning.  Just have to wrap it.  :)

Merry Christmas Everyone, in case you don't get a chance to check back in before hand.


Friday, December 21, 2018

Want To Play Doctor? Hehehe

Yesterday was crazy, and the Duke took on extra hours at work, so I couldn't play a prank on him.  But I plan to today. :)  I also hope we get to do today's dare tonight.  We've never played doctor! :P

Day 21 - Friday
- Oh, Doctor, I have an ouchie.  Well then, someone needs a full body exam.  You? Him?  Run your hands all over, comment on colour, size, shape, investigate the parts you love, the most intimate parts that may make them, or both of you, blush.  Comment on reactions. ;)  Give orders for positions you need them in to check each area, remind them you expect them to be a very good patient.  Use a flashlight or magnifying glass for an even more up close look.  And don’t forget to be very thorough.

Can you believe Christmas is in 4 days.  It's now too late to order anything to arrive by Christmas, and the stores are crazy.  I went to the grocery store yesterday at 11am, and it was jam packed, and I decided to shop later.  Merry Christmas if you don't get on again before then.  I hope you have a Merry Christmas with great memories.  :)

Thursday, December 20, 2018

Time To Be Bad??? :P

Today's challenge says everything, and no post is needed to add to it, I think.  Oh, PLEASE though, please share what you did afterwards. :) :)  I'll share mine tomorrow. :)


Day 20 - Thursday
- Okay, tih's, we've been very good so far this month... haven't we? A little too good? I say we need a prank day. Agreed? :) So, what can you do? Don't get yourself into too much hot water though, you can't blame me if you do. hahaha ;)

Mismatch all the socks in his drawer? Fold all his underwear inside out? Or replace with yours? Short sheet the bed? Make him do a 3 minute scavenger hunt to find his keys (don't make him late for work)? Stuff tissues in his shoes? Just remember, have fun, but don't make him too angry... you still have a few more spankings in the near future. LOL And keep things safe. :)

- Use a special toy to stimulate your partner to completion, or have them use one on you.  To mix it up, see if they can go more than once in a certain time period, or keep switching between toys.

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

What Was I Thinking?

Intense weather is here.  I'm putting a few posts up ahead of time because of brown outs, hoping we don't lose power though.  HOPING these also self post.  I've tried a few this month that did not self post.  I double checked the date and time, and hours after, they were still set as scheduled and hadn't posted. :(

Today's challenge is a bit exciting, thinking of my hands being tied, but then I look at the rule and spatula I suggested, and wonder WHAT IN THE WORLD I was thinking!  Those are not favourite implements by any stretch of the imagination.  If some of you will no longer talk to me after today, I have to admit, I totally understand!  lol

Day 19 - Wednesday
- 40 Spanks with a Ruler or Spatula.  Have the tih’s hands tied together, or to something sturdy.
- Hoh's, pick out clothes you’d like her to wear on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.  You may want your tih to dress more feminine, submissive, or flirty.  To mix it up, Hoh’s maybe let your tih pick your clothes for the same day. Maybe she wants you to dress more dominant, more dressy, or sexy that day than normal.

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Spanking Christmas Carols. :) HAHAHA

Last night in chat, instead of answering questions, we were asked if there were Christmas songs we could turn into spanking ones. Here are the ones I came up with. It was fun! :)  Had to throw these guys in. I made them a few years ago, but they seemed to fit this post. :)
- It came upon the midnight clear, those glorious screams of pain, that often happen over the knee, when a sub makes promises in vain
- I heard the bells on Christmas day, they helped the screaming fade away, of poor dear wives begging for their lives, begging peace on earth for all they're worth.
- Dashing through the snow, to escape the swinging Dom, got to run real fast, so that he thinks I'm gone. He's out for my butt this time, gonna make me pay my crimes, no angelic smile will save me this time, I've really crossed the line
- EsMay the sorry spanked sub, had a very red behind, and if you ever saw her, you'd know she was paying for her crimes.
- Up on the roof top the reindeer pause, as they hear a dom yell about broken laws, a lady is screaming of how sorry she is, her dom is saying he's disappointed.
- Dashing through the snow, in a finely covered sleigh, holding my sub down, to finally have my way. To make her butt all red, with my heavy hand of lead, she'll do her best to keep silent, so no one thinks I'm violent.
- Silent Night, Holy Night, All is Calm, All is Bright, Round that beautiful spanked bottom, Glowing bright from much needed attention. She will not sleep on her back tonight, oh how she wished that she might.
- All I want for Christmas is a white cheery bottom, an untouched bottom, a happy bottom. All I want for Christmas is an unspanked bottom so I can sit for a Merry Christmas.
- Ding dong merrily on high, the Christmas paddle is swinging, ding dong verily she cries, while her voice is clearly ringing
- We wish you a merry Christmas, a very cherry Christmas, we wish you a Merry Christmas with a bright cherry derriere.

Today's and this past Sunday's challenges were thought up by Baker. :) Have fun. :)

Day 18 - Tuesday
- Naughty elf on the shelf.  Put your elf in a naughty position and see if your partner can mimic that position.  Keep this away from prying eyes of any children though. Use a stuffed animal or drawing if you don't have an elf.

Only a week to go!  I cannot believe how fast this month has gone.  :)

Monday, December 17, 2018

Getting A Spanking On

Ready for a Spanking?  I am.  lol  And I usually wouldn't admit that.  We did one Saturday night, just 25 swats, but looking forward to another during this chaotic time.  I think it might help the Duke as well to wail on my bottom for a bit to let go of the stress of his fender bender the other day.  I thought he wasn't worrying about it anymore, but he was.  So a win for both of us. :)

Antibiotics are working, thank goodness.  Still have quite a rattle in my lungs, but no where near as bad.  It was super bad, I had to sleep sitting up straight for six nights.  Finally was able to lay down last night.  Did you know if you don't lie down for a week, it's hard to again?  I had no idea!  LOL  It was hard, my body couldn't get comfortable and I had to keep sitting up again for the first hour or two.  But I finally made it and slept 5 hours without a wake up.  Sooo good after a week of 60 minutes or less of sleep at a time. :)

So, today's challenge is:

Day 17 - Monday
- Sit down together and set a new goal for your relationship for the new year.
- 50 Swats with tih's implement of choice with the tih naked.

The goal doesn't have to be big, and you may already have an idea of what needs to change in your relationship.  For me, I'm going to be asking for a regular maintenance again.  I don't brat, and I very rarely get into trouble, I have too much of a guilty complex.  But I need the release of a spanking, the reminder of not being in charge, that the Duke has me.  So that is what my request will be.

7 days left of shopping.  Just in case you needed a reason to freak out today. :P

Sunday, December 16, 2018

Kinky Advent - Fulfill Your Fantasies! :)

So, Kinky Truth or Dare turned out to be a LOT of FUN! We only played for 75 minutes because it was so late when we were finally able to, but man, it was fun.  We sat on our bed, him at the head, me near the foot, sitting cross legged in typical girl sleepover fashion. :)  I even tried a toy on the Duke that I never have in the near 11 years of our marriage. I was surprised he let me, and he was surprised he liked it. :P I was NOT allowed to try anything on his bottom or spanking related though. LOL Well, you win some, you lose some. And to be honest, I think it would have freaked me out more than him to try either. :P I literally am going to start thinking up more ideas for this game, and keep it on the side for us to play on a bored night. I hope to have many more ideas for you guys if we do this next year. :) And if we don't, it still might be fun to post the game again for a fun stress reliever type night of fun and conversation. It really created some conversations we hadn't thought to have before.

I hadn't been spanked or plugged in a while, I've been sick for 6-8 weeks, and I didn't realize I would miss either. But when the Duke did both last night, it felt sooo good to connect with him again. Today you can do a spanking if you wish, it's not officially on the list, but today you get to write about your deepest desires, and if you want a spanking, add that in. :) You could be two different people, you could have your tih in trouble for something they'd never do, but the idea of punishing them for it is sexy to you, you could share something you've been wanting to try, but just haven't gotten to, or have been to shy to share, etc. And you don't even have to write it out if that isn't your style. You could just sit down and share the idea, and play from there. :) Have fun. :)

Here is today's challenge.

Day 16 - Sunday - Show your naughty side by writing a play scenario that you can live out that night with your partner.
- It's been a few days since an advent spanking, so add one to your story if you'd like one, and make it just as juicy as you'd like. ;)

Thank you to those of you who have been reading along and playing. It has meant so much.

Here is the Kinky Disciplined Advent in full. :)
And if you didn't get to play Kinky Truth or Dare yesterday, why not give it a try this week? It really was more fun than I thought. :) You can go to the Kinky Truth or Dare here and get ideas, or make your own ideas up as you go. :) Here is the graphic I designed for it. :)

Saturday, December 15, 2018

Let's Play KINKY TRUTH or DARE!!! :)

Today is the day.  Are you ready?  Oh my, I hope some of you out there play sometime this weekend. :)  Even if you only have 10 or 15 minutes. We're planning to a bit later today.  EEK!!! :)  Made the sign today.  I've never designed a butt plug or dildo before! :)  Dad came in while I was putting the ribbing on the dildo and asked what I was doing.  Um, *GULP* "Just some drawing."  LOL!!!  Oh the things you never think of happening when your parents need to move into your house!  LOL

Feel free to ask friends to play as well. :)  I'm including the suggestions from the other day.  Make up your own Truth or Dares, or look at the list I'm providing with 20 suggestions each if you want ideas. :)  And if you play, I would love to hear how it went if you're willing to share. :)

In case you're on a small phone and want to be able to scroll between the two ideas easily, all the Truth ideas are in GREEN and all the Dare ideas are in RED. :)  Have fun everyone! :)

And thank you for all the encouragement yesterday.  Getting on now to reply to those comments.  They meant so much to see as they came into my email yesterday.  {{{HUGS}}}  You people are amazing, and I am so thankful

Day 15 - Saturday
- In the privacy of your own bedroom or home, play a game of Kinky Truth or Dare.  Remember, no Hard Limits or anything Dangerous.

KINKY TRUTH OR DARE

Truth Ideas (Explain your answers)
  1. Do you ever wish we could switch roles for a day?
  2. Do you ever wish we could switch roles in bed?
  3. Do you ever wish you could be me for a night to see what sex is like for me?
  4. Name something that sounds sexy in your head but you would never want to try for real?
  5. Has something ever turned you on that you felt shouldn’t?
  6. What is the sexiest thing you have ever heard?
  7. When do you find me sexiest?
  8. What is one thing you wished I understood better about your role in our dynamic?
  9. What is something your friends say they like to do sexually that you don’t think you’d like?
  10. Pretend I’m someone else, describe what it’s like to make love to me.
  11. If you could only do oral or anal for the rest of your life, which would you choose and why?
  12. To do over again, is there anything you wish we’d done different in our marriage or dynamic?
  13. Is there anything sexual that we haven’t done that you’d like to try?
  14. What is the one part on your body you’re insecure about that you would like encouragement on?
  15. Where is the most risque place you’d make love to me in?
  16. What is your most embarrassing moment?
  17. What thing do I do, when not trying to be sexy, that turns you on the most?
  18. What is the hottest thing you’ve read or seen on tv?
  19. Is there a name that is typically thought of as dirty that you secretly wish I’d call you?
  20. If you had to share one thing about our dynamic with every person you meet, what would it be? 
Dare Ideas (Sorry if these are too kinky, wanted to make them quite fun for you)
  1. I’m going to use a vibrator on you for 3 minutes, you aren’t allowed to come.
  2. Wear a butt plug for the next 6 turns.
  3. Wear nipple clamps for the next 5 turns.
  4. I’m going to gag you this turn until you automatically do a dare next turn.
  5. Take off your (clothing piece) for the rest of the game.
  6. I’m going to blindfold you. You’re going to kiss, lick, or suck whatever of my body parts I lead you to.
  7. Please yourself while I watch.  (You can make them describe it too) 
  8. Let me take a picture of you nude, or in a naughty pose.
  9. Suck on my finger like you’re giving me oral for a minute.  Keep eye contact.
  10. Pretend you’re a cat for 3 minutes, and there’s milk on my privates.
  11. I’m going in your bottom for 4 minutes.
  12. I’m going to do an up close and personal exam of your (name private part) with a flashlight for 3 minutes.
  13. Pretend giving oral on a dildo for 2 minutes.
  14. Try to turn me on with words and/or actions alone.
  15. Do a sexy dance strip tease for me.
  16. Pretend to be a sex phone operator with me calling in for 3 minutes.
  17. Crawl to the kitchen naked and get me something to eat.
  18. Let me run an ice cube all over you for two minutes.
  19. I’m going to make you come, and you’re not allowed to move a single muscle the whole time.
  20. Take 25 spanks with the implement I choose

Friday, December 14, 2018

The Duke's Accident This Morning - My Needing To Calm Down

My husband rear ended another car today while he was on his way to work.  I want to tell you I handled it like the perfect submissive, but I put my foot down and took control.  Grabbed the bull by the horns and demanded how things would be handled.

The Advent challenge is to write a letter thanking your partner for something they do in your dynamic... and I don't feel thankful.  I feel frustrated.  I don't feel submissive at all.  This is not what I needed while I'm sick, while I just went down to only one day of work a week starting this week, and with Christmas just around the corner.  The fault is his.  Very clearly his, and that makes me even more frustrated.  Usually I'm the one who has to clean up messes like this, but that is where I took control today.  He told me of the damage to his car and the other car, and I said I wasn't doing it.  It's his mess, by his own distractedness, and I'm not going to fix it this time.  He also gets very down (not depressed) very fast when he's made a mistake, and I said he wasn't doing it this time, because I'm the one who has to spend months of exhausting energy to snap him out of it.  I don't have it in me right now.

So, I'm going to try to write my letter today.... but augh, it's going to seriously cost me.  Right now all I want to do rant, but that will fix nothing.  *HEAVY SIGH*  Whoever says being submissive makes a person weak has never had to fight their inner battle to want to stand and fight, and then FORCE themselves to calm and deal with their partner with respect and dignity and to try to help when all they want to do is push their face in their mess and stomp all over them.  I feel the power to destroy right now, I could do so much damage with the words I feel inside of me, and I have to reign it in.  Being submissive is not for the weak.  Augh, I rarely feel anger anymore, but man, today it's boiling up inside. :( :(  Hoping I can get it gone before he comes home.

Day 14 - Friday
- Write two letters, they do not have to be long.  One thanking your partner for something they do in your dynamic that you love.  Give that one to them today.  Write another one telling them why you love them and save that one for Christmas Day.

Thursday, December 13, 2018

Naughty Toys! LOL & Day 13

It's amazing how innocent a child's toy can be, until it gets into the hands of a spanko!  lol  With baby girl and I sick, we decided to give her this Lego Christmas gift early to play with.  I realized the peel (pizza shovel) from the oven could have more than one use! :)  And no, I did not let our daughter see this. lol

BTW  This Lego Pizzeria set is amazing if you are looking for a gift idea for a girl in the age 4-10 bracket. :)  

So this naughty fun seems to go along perfect with today's challenge. :)

Day 13 - Thursday
- Test how good your sub is at counting under pressure.  Set a number, 20, 30, 50, 100, or what have you, make her count each spank until you reach it.  To mix it up, have various implements where she can't see them, and keep switching every so often so she never knows what's coming.

The full Kinky Disciplined Advent is here. :)

Have fun.  And remember, Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Day 12 Plus Truth Or Dare Ideas For Saturday

I have lost a few readers this week. I am sorry if posting daily for the Advent is annoying. :( I promise I'll be back to my slower posting schedule after Christmas. :)

Day 12 - Wednesday
- Sext, sexy email, voice mail, or what have you, every hour or two, or leave sexy letters in your partner’s coat, briefcase, wallet, etc,  about something naughty you want to do when they get home.  Have your bedroom all clean, romantic music, candles if you like, sexy lingerie or underwear.  Fulfill all your promises of the day.

Saturday Is Kinky Truth Or Dare.  In case you wanted to play with some pre-thought ideas, I made up this list.  I made up what I could, and then went online and researched some kinky games to get some ideas as well until I had 20 Truth and 20 Dare ideas for you. :)  Giving this to you now so that you have time to print it out if you prefer, or to get out any items I listed on the Dare portion.  


KINKY TRUTH OR DARE

Truth Ideas (Explain your answers)
  1. Do you ever wish we could switch roles for a day?
  2. Do you ever wish we could switch roles in bed?
  3. Do you ever wish you could be me for a night to see what sex is like for me?
  4. Name something that sounds sexy in your head but you would never want to try for real?
  5. Has something ever turned you on that you felt shouldn’t?
  6. What is the sexiest thing you have ever heard?
  7. When do you find me sexiest?
  8. What is one thing you wished I understood better about your role in our dynamic?
  9. What is something your friends say they like to do sexually that you don’t think you’d like?
  10. Pretend I’m someone else, describe what it’s like to make love to me.
  11. If you could only do oral or anal for the rest of your life, which would you choose and why?
  12. To do over again, is there anything you wish we’d done different in our marriage or dynamic?
  13. Is there anything sexual that we haven’t done that you’d like to try?
  14. What is the one part on your body you’re insecure about that you would like encouragement on?
  15. Where is the most risque place you’d make love to me in?
  16. What is your most embarrassing moment?
  17. What thing do I do, when not trying to be sexy, that turns you on the most?
  18. What is the hottest thing you’ve read or seen on tv?
  19. Is there a name that is typically thought of as dirty that you secretly wish I’d call you?
  20. If you had to share one thing about our dynamic with every person you meet, what would it be?

Dare Ideas (Sorry if these are too kinky, wanted to make them quite fun for you)
  1. I’m going to use a vibrator on you for 3 minutes, you aren’t allowed to come.
  2. Wear a butt plug for the next 6 turns.
  3. Wear nipple clamps for the next 5 turns.
  4. I’m going to gag you this turn until you automatically do a dare next turn.
  5. Take off your (clothing piece) for the rest of the game.
  6. I’m going to blindfold you. You’re going to kiss, lick, or suck whatever of my body parts I lead you to.
  7. Please yourself while I watch.  (You can make them describe it too)  
  8. Let me take a picture of you nude, or in a naughty pose.
  9. Suck on my finger like you’re giving me oral for a minute.  Keep eye contact.
  10. Pretend you’re a cat for 3 minutes, and there’s milk on my privates.
  11. I’m going in your bottom for 4 minutes.
  12. I’m going to do an up close and personal exam of your (name private part) with a flashlight for 3 minutes.
  13. Pretend giving oral on a dildo for 2 minutes.
  14. Try to turn me on with words and/or actions alone.
  15. Do a sexy dance strip tease for me.
  16. Pretend to be a sex phone operator with me calling in for 3 minutes.
  17. Crawl to the kitchen naked and get me something to eat.
  18. Let me run an ice cube all over you for two minutes.
  19. I’m going to make you come, and you’re not allowed to move a single muscle the whole time.
  20. Take 25 spanks with the implement I choose

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

50 Shades Advent Almost 75% Off! :) Plus Day 11

SOOO, to those of you that liked the Fifty Shades Advent but it was out of your price range, they marked it down 45% and then if you use the coupon code "Fifty" it is another 50% off! :)  That puts it just under $100 American and just under $150 Canadian.  Still out of our price range, but maybe it would fit yours. :)  Here is the Canadian link and here is the American link if you want to take a look.  I tried the coupon to make sure before posting this. :) 


Today's challenge is to do something nice for your spouse.  :)  Think for a bit and then put it into action. :)

Day 11 - Tuesday
- Do something you normally don't like or avoid, but would really please your partner.  ie. make their favourite food that you don't really like as much, or do one of their chores they don't like.

I was sent for an x-ray today to see if I have pneumonia.  I mean, when we decide to get sick, we really go for it, eh?  Baby girl is finally able to keep down a bit of food.  Very little, but I'll take it! :)

Monday, December 10, 2018

Day 10 - Let's Dress Up! :) Or Down. LOL

Okay fellow tihs/subs, we all know there is some way or another that our Hohs/Doms/Sirs/Masters have either wanted us to dress for either a whole outfit, or for just a spanking.  Here is your day to dress up just the way they like. :)  The Duke doesn't care about shoes, makeup or hairstyle, but, *BLUSH*  he loves me in a camisole and thong.  I don't do the thong often, so I plan to have those on to start this. :P  *BLUSH*  He will be soo happy. :)  What will make the head of your relationship happy? :)

Day 10 - Monday
- 50 Swats with HoH's implement of choice with the tih wearing nothing but the shoes (or barefoot) the Hoh chooses.  Hair and makeup done the way the HoH likes.

Saturday is Kinky/Sexy Truth or Dare.  Look on Wednesday for some ideas to play with it. :)

You can find the whole Kinky Disciplined Advent here. :)

I now have bronchitis again. :P  So I'm going to post date a few posts just in case I can't get on in time.  I'll be checking every single comment, and if I can get on in time, I'll add my thoughts to the post for the day. :)  Have fun. :)  



Sunday, December 09, 2018

Day 9 - Some Crafty Fun. :)

I don't know where the day got to. I am sooo sorry this is so late. Baby girl is very sick, we were until at least 2am. Would love prayer. She hasn't been able to keep food down since Wednesday afternoon. Even at the doctor yesterday she threw up and he just said to keep giving her saline sprays 5-7 times a day. She had the flu, but throwing up now is from gagging on post nasal drip. She's miserable, poor thing. She finally kept down a small bit of ice cream. I normally wouldn't give it to her when she is sick, but she was crying for it, and I figured at this point I would do whatever I could to help her.

Today's challenge is here. :)

Day 9 - Sunday
- Take some play dough or clay and see if you can spend the evening recreating parts of each others’ bodies.  Or do the same with drawing.  If the images aren’t too risqué, we'd love to see some posted on your blog. :)  (I'll post an easy play dough recipe a few days before hand in case you want to make it.)  To mix it up, make your partner expose on their body each part you create for the rest of the game.

The recipe if you need to make some play dough is here. :)
I would HONESTLY love to see some of the things you come up with, if they aren't too risqué. :P  Don't put up anything you wouldn't want a loved one seeing. :P

Have fun. :)  If you're itching for a spanking, there is a nice one in store for tomorrow. :)

Here is the full Kinky Disciplined Advent if you haven't seen it yet. :)  Hope you're having fun with which ever days you get to do. :)


Saturday, December 08, 2018

I LOVE THIS ONE - Kinky Advent - Day 8

I wrote today's challenge, the first one in green, because it is so dear to my heart.  We don't get to do it as often as we planned when we talked about it this summer, but whenever we do this, I melt. I feel safe, yet vulnerable, I feel exposed, yet protected, I feel myself yearning of being worthy, and I see the deep love and pride in the Duke's eyes.  I'm hoping that if you guys try challenge number one, you'll be as blessed as I have been.  If you have never tried it before, give yourselves a few minutes to really feel your roles.  It's amazing.

Day 8 - Saturday

- Hoh’s, have your tih kneel at your feet or sit on the bed, naked if they are comfortable with it, while you are still clothed standing above them.  Hold their chin, stroke their hair, hold their shoulder, whatever seems natural to you.  Remind them of how proud you are to have their submission.  Remind them who is in charge, who they belong to and answer to.  Give them a few compliments on how they look and how you like how they behave. The power exchange here can be powerful and beautiful.

- Hoh’s, leave a hickey on your tih somewhere.  The more private the better.  Every time they see it, they'll think of you.  To mix it up leave a couple, some she can see easily, some only you can see.  To mix it up more, your tih can leave one on you as well.

The recipe for play dough if you need it for tomorrow is in yesterday's post. :)  And if you want to see the advent in it's entirety, it is here. :)  Thank you for playing along, and I hope, even if you only get to do a few, that you're finding the challenges fun.  :)  Would love feed back here or there if there are things you love, or hate, in case I do it again next year.  I think I'd like to. :)