Tonight I sit on a red bottom, with a very happy husband sitting just three feet away from me, and let me tell you, it was VERY worth it.
He came home all worried. Worried about me being sick. Worried about my new job. About money, one or our cats sleeping so much, about his job, about our car, and the list literally goes on and on. I told him that a lot of that we can't control, so why don't we think of something he can control.
Husband: *Sneaky smile* Well, I can control you.
Me: *laugh* yes, yes you can. Would giving me a spanking help you feel more in control?
Husband: No, I don't need to give you a spanking right now. You've been really good.
So then I went on to explain that there were many reasons for spanking, and one was reaffirming his role as HOH if he felt the need, and another was to help him feel more control. He said that was good to know, but just kept up with his worry. So I started playing around with him. Then I pretended to ping his nose, and then actually pinged it.
Me: What do you have to say to me doing that? (now for the rest of this convo, remember we have two cats)
Husband: I won't eat out of the garbage anymore.
Husband: I won't jump on D anymore. (one cat of ours is always jumping on the other)
Husband: I won't cry for more food
And on and on he went, and I playfully pinged his nose for each one. Then I got sassy, and gave him two swats on the behind! I was in such a playful mood! Haven't been that way in forever.
Husband: Hey, you're not allowed to spank me.
Me: Well you sure aren't stopping me.
Husband: *smile on his face* Don't spank me.
Me: *laughing* You don't sound serious
Husband: *trying not to smile* I am, don't spank me.
Me: *laughing even harder* You still don't sound serious
Husband: *James Earl Jones type voice* I am very serious
Me: *FLAT OUT LAUGHTER*
(Forgot this part, added it after) He then gave me like 10 swats, hard, but not too hard, and I still laughed the whole way through.
So I jokingly threated to use the new loopy on him, just once... oh, he didn't like that. LOL So we had a tickle fight as I kept trying to get away to get the loopy. I finally got away and grabbed it from the next room. As I was coming back into the room with it, I all the sudden was very nervous. I decided I'd better not show him, and so stuffed it down the back of my pants.
Well we cuddled for a moment, and then I was afraid he'd find it, so I admitted to getting it, but told him I wasn't going to use it. Took it out and threw it across the room. He then got up to get it. I raced out of the room and to the bathroom and locked the door! He asked why he couldn't open the door, I never lock it. LOL I could hear him knocking, WITH THE LOOPY!!!
I opened the door and whizzed past him, really trying not to laugh, and not succeeding at all. Well I ended up with 20 warm up spanks, and 20 loopy spanks. I told him I had obeyed and not spanked him, and he told me that I also told him he could spank me just because if he felt he needed to. The relaxed look on my husband's face? Made it worth it all. :) The spanking did hurt, but I had so much fun leading up to it, and the cuddle time afterwards. :) He even gave me my first corner time yet, only for a few minutes, but just to help me feel submissive, and him feel in control.
He is so relaxed now, and in such a good mood. I told him next time he's anxious, if giving me a spanking, as long as he's not angry, will help, to go for it. I can't believe how much I love this man. :) After the spanking he did say I could spank him once if I felt I really wanted to, and gave me the loopy. I told him no, it would make me feel like I was taking back control. He's so cute. :)