Day 8 - Saturday
- Hoh’s, have your tih kneel at your feet or sit on the bed, naked if they are comfortable with it, while you are still clothed standing above them. Hold their chin, stroke their hair, hold their shoulder, whatever seems natural to you. Remind them of how proud you are to have their submission. Remind them who is in charge, who they belong to and answer to. Give them a few compliments on how they look and how you like how they behave. The power exchange here can be powerful and beautiful.
- Hoh’s, leave a hickey on your tih somewhere. The more private the better. Every time they see it, they'll think of you. To mix it up leave a couple, some she can see easily, some only you can see. To mix it up more, your tih can leave one on you as well.
The recipe for play dough if you need it for tomorrow is in yesterday's post. :) And if you want to see the advent in it's entirety, it is here. :) Thank you for playing along, and I hope, even if you only get to do a few, that you're finding the challenges fun. :) Would love feed back here or there if there are things you love, or hate, in case I do it again next year. I think I'd like to. :)
Hi EsMay,
ReplyDeleteWe used to do exactly this as part of maintenance. We did find it very powerful in reinforcing our roles and we felt such an intimacy and connection afterwards.
Hugs
Roz
Oh, me too, Roz. :) I was surprised how much I loved it.
DeleteHugs, EsMay
Yeah the kneeling is a powerful stance, in that it feels like it gives power to the Hoh
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I'd call it surrendering power. :P
DeleteYour EsMay :)