tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post6910748635465963930..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: Domestic Discipline Boot Camp - Day OneUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-70590040364229383882013-04-29T09:20:26.257-03:002013-04-29T09:20:26.257-03:00Christina, we found the same. I mean, there was s...Christina, we found the same. I mean, there was some learning to do through the punishments, but most of it was the homework assignments. They are really what made the whole experience for us. I don't know if that's because we were alreading doing DD, or not.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-86184676619544976642013-04-29T00:34:43.508-03:002013-04-29T00:34:43.508-03:00It was our experience with a short boot camp that ...It was our experience with a short boot camp that the most growth we did as a couple was through the homework assignment part of the experience and it sounds like you both have learned new things from the other and are very close at the end of day one. Good luck! :DChristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04713462104350765878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-79465602969704043192013-04-28T23:57:38.369-03:002013-04-28T23:57:38.369-03:00Thank you, I am trying to be honest. :)Thank you, I am trying to be honest. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-50369468859770805912013-04-28T23:57:10.629-03:002013-04-28T23:57:10.629-03:00Thank you. :) It went really well. :)Thank you. :) It went really well. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-8525573691646484732013-04-28T23:54:08.669-03:002013-04-28T23:54:08.669-03:00I am so glad you understand. :) I felt so weak to...I am so glad you understand. :) I felt so weak to find it overwhelming, but looking at it today, I realized it really was a lot to handle in a day. He did make it all his own today. :) He really spoiled me if I were honest. ;)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-8659867333842046412013-04-28T23:50:41.187-03:002013-04-28T23:50:41.187-03:00TL, thank you so much. I don't do so hot over...TL, thank you so much. I don't do so hot overwhelmed either, so I completely understand holding off on telling him. But I have to tell you, if you an find a way to work through the overwhelming parts, this book really helped us through some things. :) Things I didn't know we'd ever get firm footing on. And thank you, I do feel kind of awesome at the moment. LOL I feel such an urge to flip my hair back with a hand like they do in the old movies! ;)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-32415844654909817382013-04-28T23:48:24.991-03:002013-04-28T23:48:24.991-03:00Hey April. :) I guess the punishments is to do a ...Hey April. :) I guess the punishments is to do a trial run so that you know how to execute it when it comes time to actually doing it. That way you can see if you'll possibly run into any problems, and also both people in the couple can fully understand their roles in the future for punishments. LOL, I don't know that I had more guts, lol, but definitely wanted to do whatever we could to make our marriage keep getting stronger. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-75359177293619953402013-04-28T23:44:23.813-03:002013-04-28T23:44:23.813-03:00It was hard, but it was really worth it. I feel o...It was hard, but it was really worth it. I feel our marriage is already stronger. :) I am glad that it helps you learn about it.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-612573097180723672013-04-28T23:43:37.776-03:002013-04-28T23:43:37.776-03:00Thank you, Bob. :) It was great to do so. :)Thank you, Bob. :) It was great to do so. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-65206281896892911802013-04-28T23:42:24.054-03:002013-04-28T23:42:24.054-03:00Roz, thank you so much. :) I hope it will be a he...Roz, thank you so much. :) I hope it will be a help to others too. The closeness is amazing. :) I won't lie.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-40195796021711448192013-04-28T23:41:38.367-03:002013-04-28T23:41:38.367-03:00We have decided that soaping will only be done for...We have decided that soaping will only be done for severe cases if I refuse to tell the truth on something, or keep swearing after several warnings. Since we've never had this problem, we don't see ever having to use it. To be honest, the Duke only made me put a few flakes, thank goodness! But if I ever need it in the future, it will NOT be just a few flakes. :(Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-2871004552182135072013-04-28T23:39:09.779-03:002013-04-28T23:39:09.779-03:00Thank you, Callie, it has gone really well. :)Thank you, Callie, it has gone really well. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-48921873267783631472013-04-28T23:38:33.659-03:002013-04-28T23:38:33.659-03:00It really did go well. :) Thank you, Tricia. :)It really did go well. :) Thank you, Tricia. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-31494669188895873322013-04-28T23:37:28.450-03:002013-04-28T23:37:28.450-03:00Thank you, Sarah. I don't know that I'm a...Thank you, Sarah. I don't know that I'm a positive person, but thank you for thinking so. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-75871412144950352692013-04-28T23:36:28.369-03:002013-04-28T23:36:28.369-03:00Thank you, June. :)Thank you, June. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-91318326727028395102013-04-28T23:36:07.440-03:002013-04-28T23:36:07.440-03:00Thank you, Dana. I used to have PTSD, so I comple...Thank you, Dana. I used to have PTSD, so I completely understand your worry. {{{HUGS}}} Definitely do what you are able to. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-51343987613018549922013-04-28T21:25:19.778-03:002013-04-28T21:25:19.778-03:00Hugs! I am glad you are both communicating the big...Hugs! I am glad you are both communicating the big and small stuff. *Sends love*Mixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17074485599675377693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-85147526919441208522013-04-28T18:58:31.487-03:002013-04-28T18:58:31.487-03:00You two are really committing to each other. It...You two are really committing to each other. It's inspiring. Good luck.<br />Beamybeahind.wordpress.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02385085486119138467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-14723362837248356332013-04-28T16:48:07.792-03:002013-04-28T16:48:07.792-03:00I'm glad you are doing okay. It sounds like s...I'm glad you are doing okay. It sounds like some aspects of this have been really good for both of you and others overwhelming. I think I'd feel very much the same way at the end of a long, emotional day. I hope that your hubby took the guide and really made it your own on the second day so that you were not overwhelmed.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-68381622753350812222013-04-28T11:00:35.653-03:002013-04-28T11:00:35.653-03:00I have been thinking about you and wondering how i...I have been thinking about you and wondering how it was going. Bucko doesn't read anything about TTWD and I haven't been brave enough to tell him about the idea of boot camp. I think I'm a little scared of it myself. I don't do well with being overwhelmed, so I think you are doing awesome. :D<br /><br />Hugs,<br />TLAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01585822635428776570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-86136660407297683392013-04-28T10:19:42.446-03:002013-04-28T10:19:42.446-03:00Wowww... I'm glad it worked out for you :) I c...Wowww... I'm glad it worked out for you :) I can so relate to the tantrums though.. I have the book and have read it..I'm not real sure I totally understand some of it..Like being punished when you've done nothing wrong..Gotta say you have more guts then I doAprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17401922447273129858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-91026010005990620742013-04-28T08:58:35.799-03:002013-04-28T08:58:35.799-03:00Oh your poor dear. I'm sorry but so glad you d...Oh your poor dear. I'm sorry but so glad you did this so we all can know about it. Especially the beginners like me. Thank you! I hope today goes GREAT and you are okay. <br /><br />Hugs<br />M. maryannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14039657944100565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-56919736553603860752013-04-28T08:47:39.372-03:002013-04-28T08:47:39.372-03:00Hi Es May
Glad you made through day 1 and that yo...Hi Es May<br /><br />Glad you made through day 1 and that you found out some new things about the two of you. Sleep thight <br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-29099639012727116562013-04-28T05:09:04.692-03:002013-04-28T05:09:04.692-03:00Hey Es May, thank you for giving us and update and...Hey Es May, thank you for giving us and update and your thoughts on the structure of the day. I'm sure this will be a great help to those thinking about it.<br /><br />it's wonderful to hear the positives and closeness you two are getting out of it. I hope tomorrow is a good day. Wishing you all the best and looking forward to hearing about day 2.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-67730804414522617142013-04-28T02:05:25.863-03:002013-04-28T02:05:25.863-03:00So glad that it is working for you. I couldn't...So glad that it is working for you. I couldn't handle the soap in the mouth thing. I never did that to my own kids so there is no way I could handle it myself. Brave woman. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com