tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post4691143978126384874..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: The Duke Judged :(Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-5945129576409962842018-02-28T23:12:37.635-04:002018-02-28T23:12:37.635-04:00Sometimes it is, but then I have to remember, I ha...Sometimes it is, but then I have to remember, I have left my parents when I was 18, and I'm married to the Duke. Just because they moved in with us does not mean I have to do as my father says, something I have to remind myself at times. I just have to do what the Duke says. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-87692847729510527232018-02-28T23:11:22.725-04:002018-02-28T23:11:22.725-04:00Eeek, that could be a bit scary. Not for me, I do...Eeek, that could be a bit scary. Not for me, I don't care what he thinks about me, I need this. But I worry about people judging the Duke, or bugging my child when they're older. For me, I'd actually find a freedom in people knowing, and two friends do... but it isn't best for everyone involved for more to know. I will have to watch my Dad for a while and see. :) And thank you, I hope they're better soon too. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-16867311642363810242018-02-28T17:33:45.277-04:002018-02-28T17:33:45.277-04:00That's gotta be tricky, mediating between dad ...That's gotta be tricky, mediating between dad and husband. I hope it works out!Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-27675825025043086082018-02-28T13:06:41.611-04:002018-02-28T13:06:41.611-04:00I thought about posting this, because I don't ...I thought about posting this, because I don't want to upset you further, but it just stays in my head, so here I go. <br />Do you think that there's the slightest chance your Dad does know more than you think and was angry because of this - because he can't understand why you would let the Duke spank you? I may be completely wrong here, but it sounds that this kind of comment isn't typical for your Dad, so either he was upset about something else and it doesn't have to do anything with you at all, or he suspects something. Of course it's difficult to find out if this is true, without really giving your secret away... Maybe you should just pay attention if in the next time he is more critical of the Duke than before...<br />Anyway I hope this thought didn't upset you further (maybe you thought about this yourself before?). I hope your headaches are better as well. <br />Take care. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-45633126147411286222018-02-28T08:04:13.257-04:002018-02-28T08:04:13.257-04:00Thank you. :) We tried, you'll see up in my a...Thank you. :) We tried, you'll see up in my answer to abby that it didn't fully work, but it helped. :) Hopefully we can try again soon. {{{HUGS}}}EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-84170420189604124052018-02-28T08:03:21.139-04:002018-02-28T08:03:21.139-04:00Thank you, Roz. I realized after that it wasn'...Thank you, Roz. I realized after that it wasn't necessarily guilt... though probably still some. IT was that I felt judged, and because it was said in such a way about something so close to the very heart about who I am, it made me feel like something icky was trying to destroy my precious gift with the Duke. Thankfully I can see that now and am ready to stand firm against it if it ever comes up again, and the Duke discussed what he would say as well if he were confronted like that. {{{HUGS}}}EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-4387405035780337692018-02-28T08:01:16.251-04:002018-02-28T08:01:16.251-04:00It is definitely so hard. I know letting them mov...It is definitely so hard. I know letting them move in was the right thing, I just didn't understand the full extent of how hard the lack of privacy would be. We did do a spanking, but them my little one wanted in her room right next to ours, and so my Dad and her ended up in there, and we just were too afraid that no matter how hard we tried, we couldn't keep it "THAT" quiet. :( We'll try again in a couple days. {{{HUGS}}}EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-70477532170347684332018-02-28T04:55:57.265-04:002018-02-28T04:55:57.265-04:00EsMay I hope you find a way to talk to the Duke an...EsMay I hope you find a way to talk to the Duke and have your stress relief spanking to put everything right again. Good luck!<br />Hugs Lindy xxLindy Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13859977416089280383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-29690918044236894792018-02-28T04:49:05.266-04:002018-02-28T04:49:05.266-04:00Hi EsMay, I agree, it must have it's difficult...Hi EsMay, I agree, it must have it's difficult moments having your parents under the same roof. I'm sorry you were made to feel this way and I don't think you have anything to feel guilty about. <br /><br />Good on you for sharing with the Duke. I hope you get the resolution you need.<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-59639880520219182562018-02-27T13:27:17.133-04:002018-02-27T13:27:17.133-04:00Such a difficult situation to be in...having 3 gen...Such a difficult situation to be in...having 3 generations under one roof is not an easy thing..even when they all love each other. I hope you find a way for that spanking tonight...<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.com