tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post4328627360656717481..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: ObeyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-23724871202186394452018-11-12T23:10:24.889-04:002018-11-12T23:10:24.889-04:00Thank you, NoraJean. I think she enjoyed the vaca...Thank you, NoraJean. I think she enjoyed the vacation. lol I did talk to the Duke, and we had quite the talk. I think we might be able to work on some things now. I definitely got spanked last night just because. :P<br />Hugs, EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-33418693928224989772018-11-10T21:55:21.152-04:002018-11-10T21:55:21.152-04:00I love your little analogy about your submission b...I love your little analogy about your submission being on vacation, EsMay :>)) You have a lot of responsibilities on your shoulders and all of that plus criticism that you are not living up to someone's expectations, will no doubt chase away your submissive self. I too, lose my submissiveness when life stresses interfere. However, as others have said, this is the time for you to rely on your Duke ... share your thoughts with your man and you might be surprised at the results.<br />Hugs!NoraJeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08179459370726719764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21058750127765007532018-11-10T10:16:30.158-04:002018-11-10T10:16:30.158-04:00Thank you, Roz. Seriously, thank you. Yeah, I ca...Thank you, Roz. Seriously, thank you. Yeah, I can see now how I went into survival mode, and feeling that, I couldn't submit while I was trying to protect myself. And thank you for the compliments, it means so much that you, and the others, see the kinder side of me. I really try to be kind and loving to others. <br />Hugs, EsMay<br />EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21593312660377435642018-11-10T10:14:42.706-04:002018-11-10T10:14:42.706-04:00Thank you, Katie. It is hard, especially when it&...Thank you, Katie. It is hard, especially when it's the people you wish had your back, but don't. Thankfully the submission started coming back yesterday. He was around more, and just having him there fed it. Hoping that helps this week be better, even though he has a busy week at work.<br />Hugs, EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-86278831115146855212018-11-10T10:12:56.992-04:002018-11-10T10:12:56.992-04:00Oh, Princessimp, I'm sorry that you had a bad ...Oh, Princessimp, I'm sorry that you had a bad night. That built up stress can be a killed. I'm carrying some right now, and not sure why. All the sudden I'll just notice my jaw and body are very tense and I'll have to remind myself to relax. I hope that you guys were able to work out a good outcome for it.<br />EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-13603340506411115632018-11-10T10:03:16.331-04:002018-11-10T10:03:16.331-04:00I'm normal? Oh boy, there goes all the mystiq...I'm normal? Oh boy, there goes all the mystique. ;) <br /><br />You are right, they have no right to push their opinions on me. I don't have to live up to their expectations, and usually I do well with that, but this time was too many too close together. I understand the wanting to rebel. Oh do I understand. I too try to remind myself I'm too old for that though. lol I promise not to shut everyone out, but I do, like you said, distance myself from those who cause too much trouble. Thank you for writing, Windy, that greatly encouraged me. I read it right after you posted, but couldn't get onto my account right away to write back. Thank you.<br />Hugs, EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-25257219464226411372018-11-10T09:56:16.102-04:002018-11-10T09:56:16.102-04:00Thank you, Boo, and thank you for contacting me to...Thank you, Boo, and thank you for contacting me to check on me. I am so blessed by my friends in blogland. {{{HUGS}}}<br />Hugs, EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-7854076163017761242018-11-10T06:51:16.697-04:002018-11-10T06:51:16.697-04:00Hi EsMay,
I am so very sorry you have had such a ...Hi EsMay,<br /><br />I am so very sorry you have had such a tough week. Criticism is hard to take, especially from loved ones and it's no wonder your submission has taken a vacation for now.<br /><br />It breaks my heart that you are being treated this way, especially when you give so much of yourself to others. You are such a loving and caring person. Some wonderful and wise words from Windy and Katie.<br /><br />I'm so glad you are feeling a little better and hope you continue to feel even better.<br /><br />Hugs <br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-79658118436338362212018-11-09T11:40:28.379-04:002018-11-09T11:40:28.379-04:00Hi EsMay,:) I'm so sorry that you had a tough ...Hi EsMay,:) I'm so sorry that you had a tough week. It is hard when people are critical of us, or unkind- especially when it comes from family and close friends.<br /><br />Lean on that fella of yours, communicate and I'm guessing that you will find your submission. One thing that I have noticed is that when I am upset about something, have a worry, and take it to Rob, he can help me to see things differently, or find solutions. It takes a big load off. As he helps me, it feeds his leadership. Which goes on to encourage my quest for submission. I hope that you have a nice weekend and a much better week ahead! BTW- so cute about the obey thing and your daughter! Many hugs,<br /><br />❤️Katie xoxo Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-43096582194184954052018-11-09T07:27:01.165-04:002018-11-09T07:27:01.165-04:00I completely understand. I/we had a terrible nigh...I completely understand. I/we had a terrible night last night. It was the culmination of about 6 months of built up stress. Tom gave me several opportunities to quit bratting and to calm down. I rejected them all. The results were ugly re: how angry we both wound up. I have no idea what the DD related outcome of all that will be. Anyway, my point is, I understand when the submissive part of you checks out and sticks out her tongue on the way. Ugh.Princessimphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216468385625324426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-22185053254736464262018-11-08T19:32:06.772-04:002018-11-08T19:32:06.772-04:00Exactly! Windy is way more elegant than I am!Exactly! Windy is way more elegant than I am!Boosghost2https://www.blogger.com/profile/17561751126690661268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-40670015106597152952018-11-08T18:35:30.980-04:002018-11-08T18:35:30.980-04:00Esmay,
I have news for you and it is that you are ...Esmay,<br />I have news for you and it is that you are normal. What you're going through ... that facing of criticism that you did not ask for in your life...it's bull and you're tired of putting up with it and so am I in mine. You try so hard, you don't mistreat others and then are not treated the same with people who should love you and it's worse when it is family. It hurts and it makes me want to rebel even though I am decades away from being a teenager. Keep writing, keep taking care of yourself, and if you get a little crabby with the Duke because of all of this stuff, let him help you through in whatever way he offers. Just don't clam up and shut everybody out...... the ones who bring you distress, yes, shut them out of your head as much as you can. Otherwise, keep going, keep your foot in the door here with communicating your feelings. Hugs! Windy Windyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00412465407484676318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-27124531722580929152018-11-08T16:19:26.476-04:002018-11-08T16:19:26.476-04:00Oh Esmay,
I had no idea! I am sorry it has been ...Oh Esmay,<br /><br />I had no idea! I am sorry it has been so rough! I am here though, I can listen.<br /><br />Good for the Duke! Standing strong for you!<br /><br />Just remember, we are all here for you!<br /><br />BooBoosghost2https://www.blogger.com/profile/17561751126690661268noreply@blogger.com