tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post4310278076398995301..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: Starting AnewUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-62758609574850726702015-07-26T18:37:14.805-03:002015-07-26T18:37:14.805-03:00You know, I've had to be learning this in so m...You know, I've had to be learning this in so many areas. Duke and baby come first, the rest has to just wait until I can get to it. And trying not to over think, I promise. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-33567868465605195562015-07-26T18:36:05.714-03:002015-07-26T18:36:05.714-03:00Thank you, I hope to get back to more regular writ...Thank you, I hope to get back to more regular writing. :) EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-47662584386257667822015-07-26T18:35:39.675-03:002015-07-26T18:35:39.675-03:00Thank you, we were so excited to have it. My whol...Thank you, we were so excited to have it. My whole family came to celebrate with us. :) And we are also glad to be back. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-33624790509282751572015-07-26T18:34:49.022-03:002015-07-26T18:34:49.022-03:00Thank you. And yes, I've found she has quite ...Thank you. And yes, I've found she has quite a few nuggets of wisdom. So thankful for her, and all of you. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-18537377510700059152015-07-26T18:34:17.528-03:002015-07-26T18:34:17.528-03:00I won't let it win, I promise. :) And thank y...I won't let it win, I promise. :) And thank you, I just very may well end up emailing you. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-30516584426884555342015-07-26T18:33:22.867-03:002015-07-26T18:33:22.867-03:00Thank you. :) It has been baby steps, and no puni...Thank you. :) It has been baby steps, and no punishment spankings yet, but after the non punishment one, I'm so okay with that! :) EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-45939880356987912702015-07-26T18:32:24.716-03:002015-07-26T18:32:24.716-03:00Time is definitely needed. And thank goodness we ...Time is definitely needed. And thank goodness we both realize this, or it could be an even rougher road. And nothing thankfully has to be worked out today, or even tomorrow. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21541422719908883492015-07-26T18:31:20.204-03:002015-07-26T18:31:20.204-03:00Thank you, Jan, that is what I am trying to do now...Thank you, Jan, that is what I am trying to do now. Just let go. :) I'm doing better for it.EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-7456902073089337702015-07-26T18:30:43.625-03:002015-07-26T18:30:43.625-03:00Oh, I do hope we come back stronger in the end. T...Oh, I do hope we come back stronger in the end. That will be so wonderful. DD aside, our marriage has worked that way, so hopefully it will here too. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-44980715587173387452015-07-26T18:29:16.031-03:002015-07-26T18:29:16.031-03:00Thank you. Yes, thankfully we learned before our ...Thank you. Yes, thankfully we learned before our marriage that our children have to come second to each other. Something we have been striving for. Even when she needs care, we still look to look out for each other as well. I am hoping we can keep a balance that makes everyone feel loved, needed and wanted throughout life. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-20461185120401931432015-07-26T18:26:08.010-03:002015-07-26T18:26:08.010-03:00abby, I am so glad to hear that you have such peac...abby, I am so glad to hear that you have such peace. :) Mine is coming, thank goodness. :)EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-43751846121947738422015-07-26T18:25:10.064-03:002015-07-26T18:25:10.064-03:00Thank you, we had a wonderful time. All my immedi...Thank you, we had a wonderful time. All my immediate family was there, and it was so nice. :) And I did let go. :) It needed to be done.EsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-83782841649893477472015-06-23T13:20:41.528-03:002015-06-23T13:20:41.528-03:00Lovely to hear from you again, Es May, and to know...Lovely to hear from you again, Es May, and to know the Duke is doing well. <br /><br />Don't feel you have to rush into things. The 'things' will still be there when you return to them. Duke and baby come first. <br /><br />When the time is right for the Duke's second in command to step back down, I am sure she will do so, and the Duke will step up once again. Definitely try not to overthink.<br /><br />Many hugs to you all!<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-48688079927182540262015-06-22T01:08:33.507-03:002015-06-22T01:08:33.507-03:00Look forward to reading more post. Hang in there a...Look forward to reading more post. Hang in there and just take it one day at a time.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04805071633671355739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-85017791264103689102015-06-21T16:58:17.253-03:002015-06-21T16:58:17.253-03:00Es May, it's so good to hear from you! Congrat...Es May, it's so good to hear from you! Congratulations on your baby's dedication. <br />I'm with Leigh - just let go because you're making yourself crazy! Try not to overthink. It will all come back with a few bumps along the way. But you and Duke will figure it out, I guarantee it! Welcome back!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11566699785253183984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-80683686588451552592015-06-21T12:28:10.879-03:002015-06-21T12:28:10.879-03:00Es May,
Cat is a wise person with good advice here...Es May,<br />Cat is a wise person with good advice here. Welcome back. We are all so happy for you.<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-40612367235025436742015-06-21T04:44:14.174-03:002015-06-21T04:44:14.174-03:00Don't let your fear and worry defeat you EsMay...Don't let your fear and worry defeat you EsMay...you and the Duke will work this out just as you did in the beginning. Hang in there and know that blogland is here for you. Feel free to email me if there is anything I can do to help you. Sending lots of positive energy.<br /><br />Hugs and blessings...CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-71048988773381967352015-06-20T09:50:18.547-03:002015-06-20T09:50:18.547-03:00It's so good to hear from you Es May, I have b...It's so good to hear from you Es May, I have been wondering how you are. I am so glad to hear you and the Duke have healed. You have had so much going on over the last year.<br /><br />We too have had some stops and starts with ttwd and I completely relate to the mixture of emotions you are feeling. You can let go again. Baby steps. Take things slowly and let it evolve. Don't try and jump straight back in. <br /><br />Wishing you all the best and sending positive thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />Love<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-63337651820027314062015-06-20T06:11:25.952-03:002015-06-20T06:11:25.952-03:00Hi Esmay, it is wonderful to have news from you. I...Hi Esmay, it is wonderful to have news from you. I am with Jan, don't overthink and just go with the flow. You have had so much going on lately that all might be easier once you have had a little more time. Wishing you a joyful weekend.<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Ninastay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-41500003436563632302015-06-20T04:45:30.083-03:002015-06-20T04:45:30.083-03:00Oh Esmay, just don't overthink it all. Just se...Oh Esmay, just don't overthink it all. Just see what happens and go with the flow. I bet you will soon be back in the swing of things. Glad the Duke is alright now too<br />love Jan,xxan English Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696976759167193635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-5708432738016819832015-06-20T00:31:07.241-03:002015-06-20T00:31:07.241-03:00We've had a few stops and starts along the way...We've had a few stops and starts along the way. While it's always a little bumpy getting back into the swing of things (no pun intended) at first, I've found we always end up coming back stronger in the end. I'm sure once you guys find your groove, you'll be fine. It will be different than it was before, of course, but it will be what's best for you guys at this point in your lives.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />DanaDanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15739523764975981666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-4475024246847744942015-06-19T20:15:11.486-03:002015-06-19T20:15:11.486-03:00It is so wonderful to ear from you once again. You...It is so wonderful to ear from you once again. You have definately been missed but everyone here certainly understands the circumstances that you both have been under in the past year. Having a baby changes everything but one thing will remain the same. You and Duke were together before your little one entered into your family and you will be together one she is grown and gone. Regardless of all of the needs a little one has, you both will need to make your marriage a priority at all times. Will DD look the same? Probably not. There are always adjustments to be made. It's like riding a bike, you never forget and you will resume where you left off. You both will need to spend some time talking things over to be sure what you one had in place is still applicable, or maybe there are some adjustments to be made. You know only too well how important communication has been in the past and will be in the future as you both move forward. Take a deep breath and start the process with baby steps and let Duke lead and you will naturally follow along. Life changes and so must we. I have every faith that you both will work through this time and know we are all still here waiting to offer our support and encouragement. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17884770099465728406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-72316628980330591512015-06-19T18:29:11.441-03:002015-06-19T18:29:11.441-03:00You have had quite a year...you needed to be stron...You have had quite a year...you needed to be strong. Now it is time to start letting go...not all at once...but bit by bit. It is so good to hear that everyone is healing and that the babe is doing well.....I was so scared of letting go, and now it is what gives me the most peace.<br />hugs to all of y ou...<br />abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-52302939027487252682015-06-19T18:07:01.577-03:002015-06-19T18:07:01.577-03:00LET Go, you're making yourself crazy. All wil...LET Go, you're making yourself crazy. All will be as it should in the fullness of time.<br />Good Tiding this weekend for the baby's dedication.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.com