tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post3685053559892118332..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: What Got Into The Duke???Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-25337408968303112462013-08-25T15:52:26.182-03:002013-08-25T15:52:26.182-03:00OH Dana, we are thinking of incorporating this rul...OH Dana, we are thinking of incorporating this rule, yikes... but it's the same for me. I want to lose weight, and when I eat something bad, I feel guilty, and the process starts all over again. How great that our husbands love us enough to help us. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-46489644578616716942013-08-25T15:50:43.941-03:002013-08-25T15:50:43.941-03:00Thank you, Cole, it's always terrifying to adm...Thank you, Cole, it's always terrifying to admit my weaknesses, but I also don't want to only share the good and make people think I have it anywhere near all together. lolEs Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-18419037174289897002013-08-25T15:49:01.526-03:002013-08-25T15:49:01.526-03:00Oh Willie, I used to get horrid nightmares too, th...Oh Willie, I used to get horrid nightmares too, they only stopped a few years ago, I know how much even just one of them can affect someone for days. I'm blad they aren't that frequent for you now. <br /><br />I think you are right, you know, by the end of allt his communication, the Duke and I may be talked to death. lolEs Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-44817465761048148742013-08-25T15:46:27.683-03:002013-08-25T15:46:27.683-03:00Oh, it was so what I needed. :) Thank you, Roz. ...Oh, it was so what I needed. :) Thank you, Roz. I really worry when sharing my own struggles that others may feel I'm judging them, and I'm so glad it does not come across that way. {{{HUGS}}}Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-46990577015226745142013-08-24T11:14:38.366-03:002013-08-24T11:14:38.366-03:00Es May,
We all have that one thing.. I get spank...Es May,<br /><br />We all have that one thing.. I get spanked for not following the guidelines we agreed upon for my diet for much the same reason. I blow my diet, I feel guilty. I blow my diet, I gain weight which makes me feel bad about me, and I don't want to be intimate.. SO... anywho... I am so glad to see that you guys are working together.<br />DanaDanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13148756931282483079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-47599917586899752062013-08-23T15:19:43.465-03:002013-08-23T15:19:43.465-03:00Agreeing with those that have said admitting your ...Agreeing with those that have said admitting your weaknesses makes you strong. Hugs! Glad that Duke is being what you need! Hope you find something to read that wont end in another spanking! :) I have been there! ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-37718060199906187152013-08-23T10:27:57.661-03:002013-08-23T10:27:57.661-03:00Sounds like the "Thorough" spanking '...Sounds like the "Thorough" spanking 'monster' visited your house too!<br /><br />I think a majority of us have one thing or another that we just can't deal with, and feel like others wouldn't understand. Most won't share that because they think they are too different. If only everyone was so brave so others would know they are not alone. I personally can't watch the news. No I don't walk around with my head in the sand ( oh wait, that would be an impossible feat now wouldn't it? lol). I read the news online. I can't shake events they continue to eat me long after I see them. The same applies to scary movies. I used to have reoccurring nightmares as a child about demons. I have had a few since as an adult- and while I can rationalize it after I wake, the feeling doesn't leave anytime soon. It is that feeling that shuts us down. I would suppose you are the same. You can't compartmentalize the feelings so you shut down to everyone. I know it, and I hate it. <br /><br />Well now Duke knows it too. Continue to communicate and things will only get better from here, I'm certain!williehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-1752055146487938562013-08-23T10:26:30.906-03:002013-08-23T10:26:30.906-03:00Es May,
I'm so sorry this happened and that t...Es May,<br /><br />I'm so sorry this happened and that the spanking was so hard. It sounds as though it was what you needed though and I'm so glad it helped relieve you of the guilt and that you now know that he will continue to help you with this. Good on the Duke!<br /><br />I agree with the others. You are definitely not weak. I think it showed great strength on your part to be so open. I also agree nobody would feel you are judging them. We do all have different things that affect us in this way.<br /><br />((Hugs))<br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-17887434124529462652013-08-23T08:15:43.004-03:002013-08-23T08:15:43.004-03:00Thank you, Kim. You guys are all so great to stil...Thank you, Kim. You guys are all so great to still want to talk to me. I feel very honoured right now, and humbled. And I know how you feel about the heart wrenching movies, that is how I feel about these scenes in books. It's amazing how we as women can be so easily influenced, isn't it? I wonder if men are to the same degree? I know the Duke doesn't... but I wonder about other men...<br /><br />Oh my, yes, his words really did make an impact, and I'm not sure I would have found the strength to really work on this if he hadn't used them. :) {{{HUGS}}}Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-88824988100047135952013-08-23T08:13:24.178-03:002013-08-23T08:13:24.178-03:00Missy, thank you so much for understanding. LOL It...Missy, thank you so much for understanding. LOL It would be interesting to see you scaring yourself half to death. :) I'm sure I'm a riot at scary movies. Hands over my face, sitting low in the seat, basically shaking to death. LOL Haven't seen one in years. lol<br /><br />Laughed at your comment, you are so right, he not only found his hat, but his cape too. lol And it was exactly what I needed. I feel so free now, so light, and know I can get over this now with help. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-44163539308151054592013-08-23T08:12:59.223-03:002013-08-23T08:12:59.223-03:00Thank you, Callie. It was so hard to be honest he...Thank you, Callie. It was so hard to be honest here, but I want to be. I'm not perfect, and if I only share the good, what good will that do to me in my process, or others who might be helped in their own journey. It was the hardest thing to admit this outloud, but thank you for not judging me. {{{HUGS}}}Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-34210790368863669032013-08-23T07:59:36.415-03:002013-08-23T07:59:36.415-03:00You are not weak, you are very strong. It takes a...You are not weak, you are very strong. It takes a very strong person to admit where they have a hard time. A weak person hides and denies there struggles. I have a hard time reading or watching anything with heart breaking tragedies and where someone dies. It changes my mood and I carry it with me for days.<br /><br />I'm glad the Duke stepped up and gave you a strong lecture. Their words really do make an impact!<br />Hugs,<br />KmAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349584751055182836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-61132644906455810202013-08-23T03:31:01.429-03:002013-08-23T03:31:01.429-03:00Oh honey I'm so sorry :(
So first, everyone k...Oh honey I'm so sorry :(<br /><br />So first, everyone knows you're not judging others. I'm sorry that these scenes cause you so much hurt, and I'm so glad the Duke is helping you with it. Not everyone likes sex scenes in books and movies and that's just fine, we're all different, and that's what makes this world interesting. <br />I love to watch paranormal scary movies and scare myself half to death, but when it's over I just forget it, but put a blood and gore movie on and I'll carry the scenes with me for days. We all tick differently, don't apologise for how you feel babe. <br /><br />Hey I'm very proud of the Duke, seems like he has found his HoH hat and cape and doing a great job with them too. I'm sorry you got a hard pubishment, but it sounds like it was exactly what you needed :)<br /><br />Hugs xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-3753082703200740652013-08-23T01:39:13.150-03:002013-08-23T01:39:13.150-03:00Hugs Es May,
I know exactly how you feel about mo...Hugs Es May, <br />I know exactly how you feel about movies and scenes in books. You've shared your feelings in this post and nobody should ever think worse of you for that. It's as sign of strength to be able to say things about yourself that aren't as you would like them to be. <br />If we were to all judge each other then we'd be taking God's roll, we all know that's wrong. <br /><br />CallieCalliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08722173496181331492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-2409887729264876422013-08-22T23:45:17.917-03:002013-08-22T23:45:17.917-03:00I usually wait a day to reply to comments, but I w...I usually wait a day to reply to comments, but I wanted to assure you and anyone else that reads, it was not a book you, or anyone else suggested. :) I promise. It's one I was looking at and wanted for a while. :)<br /><br />And thank you for not thinking less of me. I finally feel now, with the Duke behind me, I have the strength to do this. Thank you for sticking with me, Cali. :) {{{HUGS}}}Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-57823671306039172702013-08-22T23:28:06.885-03:002013-08-22T23:28:06.885-03:00EsMay,
I'm so glad that the Duke stood up for...EsMay,<br /><br />I'm so glad that the Duke stood up for you when you needed him to. We all have our weak areas, not one of us doesn't - and I don't think anyone will think less of you for admitting to stumbling now and then.<br /><br />I truly hope that none of the books I recommended to you was one that tripped you up - I would hate that. Sometimes it's easy to forget a little scene tucked away when so many books are chock full of sex, so if I made a mistake there, please forgive me.<br /><br />But I'm really pleased for you and the Duke. <br /><br />hugs,<br />Cali<br /><br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com