Wednesday, December 05, 2018

Oh, Blindfolds :) Day 5 Kinky Advent

How about a little trust exercise?  You can even follow it with a bit of fun. ;)


Day 5 - Wednesday

- Blindfold the tih for part of the evening, even just ten minutes, making her depend on her HoH for help and direction to build trust.  Praise her as she trusts you.  To mix it up, put ear plugs in and direct her by touch alone, or talking against her cheek/ear so other sounds are barely heard.

- To mix it up even further, take this to the bedroom afterwards and do a bit of sensory deprivation play with sight and sound gone.

I kind of wonder how to do this one in a house full of people, but we'll find a way. :)  If you do this challenge, I'd love to hear about how it went, and if you learned anything as a couple. :)

We didn't get to play last night, we weren't able to be alone until 11, and then something happened soon after, and we had enough time for a spanking.  So we're going to aim for Saturday night to do the rest of yesterday's challenge.  :)  Still excited. :)

The full Kinky Disciplined Advent is here. :)



6 comments:

  1. This sounds very cool to do. We are off on a long weekend, but I will catch up here when I can, Esmay.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. I hope you have a lot of fun, Ella. :) See you when you get back. :) :)
      Hugs, EsMay

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  2. Hi, EsMay,
    We have not had time alone either, but so want to do some catching up with my man soon!
    --Baker

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    1. I so hear you, Baker. It's hard when we get so busy that we get next to no time with our hubbys. Hoping you get time soon. :)
      Hugs, EsMay

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  3. Hi EsMay,

    There is nothing like taking away one of the senses to heighten the others. Fun challenge! Hope you and the Duke manage some time together.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I have only done the blind folding, never the sound, it's something I do want to try. :) hehe And thank you, Roz, here's hoping we can this weekend, though Dad is now sick... and he's usually the one who babysits... we'll see. :)
      Hugs, EsMay

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