Happy Love Our Lurkers Day :)

For some reason I kept thinking LOL was 17&18th.  Woops. :)

Hi, everyone.  I don't know how many lurkers I have out there, but I wanted to say hi. 

In case you don't know me well, I'm 40, live in Canada, married to a wonderful man we call Duke on here for almost 11 years now, and started DD 6 years ago this month.  It has had it's up and downs, and we now incorporate D/s and some light BDSM.  We keep learning, we keep growing. :)

I remember back when starting to read about DD, how scary it was, how naughty and exciting, and the fear of writing that first comment.  Was I weird?  Would I come across as some silly woman who didn't know anything?  Would my ignorance on a topic I so wanted to learn get me shunned?  And so many more fears.

Well, I wanted to let you know that none of that happened.  This is a loving community, and I was welcomed with open arms into a group of people who was also searching, guidance from those who had already been there, and no judgement.  I'm not saying you have to comment, I don't ever want you to feel pressured to do something you are not comfortable with.  That is part of what DD, D/s is all about, right?  Not doing something because you feel pressured.  I totally understand that and only ever want you to write because you want to.

This is our squirrel, he lives on our property somewhere.  But always hiding.  He's learning, like I learned, that the world out there isn't so scary. :)  Took this a few years ago, he's much more used to us now. :)  We never engage him, we are just outside a lot, and our presence is no longer as frightening. :)  Hopefully you'll find the same here in blogland. :)

So, if you ever wanted to say hi, or have questions, I'd love to hear from you.

Thank you all who read, I am truly thankful that you find something worth while in all the things I write.

Happy Love Our Lurkers Day.  I am so thankful for you.

EsMay