Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Tomorrow

It's official, as long as all goes to plan with our guests leaving, our year away from DD will be over tomorrow.

I'm no longer frightened.  A little nervous, and mostly excited.  We both need this.  My bottom probably won't thank me after such a long vacation for it, but it's time.

Hope it will still be my friend this time tomorrow! :)  Especially since Duke only kept the wood paddles we got, and NOTHING else.  Sorry, Cat, I can't find a feather anywhere to save my behind! ;)

I read everyone's comments from a few weeks ago and hope to have the privacy to reply soon! :)
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  1. Unknown7/15/2015 11:58 pm

    Esmay... So good to hear from you. I think you and Duke will quickly find your nich as to how things will look moving forward with a little one now. It will be good to reconnect on a level that continues to build love,trust and respect. Getting this back into place before your little one is older will make things easier in the long run. It's been a rough time for all of you and I am glad to hear some normalcy will be returning. Remember slow and easy and I am sure you and Duke will be just fine.

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:39 pm

      Hi Annabelle. It is so great to reconnect on those levels. :) We definitely do want to work out a few more kinks before she figures out what is going on. :) But hopefully we still have another six months to do this. ;)

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  2. Cat7/16/2015 12:43 am

    Hey EsMay...you two will be fine. I'm sure Duke will take it easy until your bottom gets used to it...just as he did when you first started DD. Hang in there...sending lots of positive energy your way.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:40 pm

      Hey Cat... can I send you to talk to him?!?!?! :) He did NOT go easy. It was horrible, lol. I was no worse for wear afterwards, but I was ready to be done five seconds in. lol

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  3. Anonymous7/16/2015 1:00 am

    Es May, you will do just fine! Let us know how things are going.
    Meredith

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:41 pm

      Hi Meredith, will do. :) Going to try to get a post up tonight if at all possible. :)

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  4. Tiffany7/16/2015 3:54 am

    Hope your first day back goes well.

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:41 pm

      Thank you, Angel Blue, it wasn't easy, but so glad we got the first spanking out of the way. :)

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  5. an English Rose7/16/2015 4:31 am

    Hi Esmay, hope everything goes well!!
    love Jan,xx

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:42 pm

      Thank you, Jan. It didn't go as well as I'd hoped, but it wasn't horrible. :) Hopefully I'll get to write about it tonight. :)

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  6. Roz7/16/2015 6:19 am

    Hi Es May, it's so great to see you posting again! I'm so glad life is setting down again for you two and that you can return to 'normal'. It has been one heck of a year for you.

    You and the Duke will be fine. DD may look a little different to before, but you will work out what works best for you going forward. Just take things slowly and let it develop and evolve, like you did at the beginning. Oh, and lots of communication of course :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:44 pm

      Roz, I don't believe in communication. ;) KIDDING. It is great to be talking again. We got out of the habit with his accident because it was one of the big no nos. Well we could talk to each other, but nothing in depth, nothing that required him to think. The only exception to that was talking about the accident itself if remembering caused him to be stressed. So we got out of the habit of communication. So glad to be having discussions again. :)

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  7. stay at home mom7/16/2015 11:15 am

    Hi Esmay, I hope your new beginning of DD will not be too hard and all will be well for you.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:45 pm

      Hi Ni Na, it was hard, but in a way, I'm kind of glad that it was. :)

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  8. Aimless Rambling7/16/2015 8:02 pm

    Wishing good thought and a not so sore bottom.

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:46 pm

      Thank you, Leigh. In the beginning it killed me, but soon after, it was only a burn left. I survived to tell the tale. ;)

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  9. Blondie7/16/2015 8:18 pm

    Just remember, with each swat, how great DD is for your marriage. It's the best way to raise a child, with two parents who love each other and get along.

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:47 pm

      Oh, Blondie, I forgot to remember this! lol And wish I had. But it is true, we want to raise her with parents who love each other and who work together. :)

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  10. abby7/16/2015 9:44 pm

    It is always so nice to hear from you...good luck on you re-start......
    hugs abby

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:47 pm

      Thank you, abby. Although I definitely want to avoid another spanking like that, it was a nice way to jump back in to things. Though I could not have said so at the time! ;)

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  11. Ami Starsong7/19/2015 3:52 pm

    I can't do any better than Blondie's comment. It's so true.

    Just remember to build up slowly. No rush.

    Lovely to hear from you.

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:48 pm

      Thank you, Ami. We are going slow, and it's nice to have the time to adjust. :)

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  12. Kenzie7/21/2015 11:35 pm

    Yay Esmay! Can't wait to hear about how its going!

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    1. EsMay7/26/2015 6:48 pm

      Thank you, Kenzie. I will try to get on and write about it later tonight. :)

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