Thursday, March 14, 2013

Questions Answered

From Missy Jones: Here is a question for you, what's the one thing you didn't think you get spanked for, but did ? ;)

Hmmm, well aside from the swatting incident the other night. ;)  I'd have to say a few weeks ago.  The Duke had ordered me to bed, and I had gone, but not as soon as I'd been told.  I wasn't really that much later, but I was so tired, we both knew I should have listened straight away, even though it wasn't late.  So even though it was only like ten swats, I really did not expect it! I'd never been spanked for something that small up until then.

From Grace: What's your most favorite and least favorite of the implements you have? Also, what implement that you don't have intrigues you or is something you'd like to purchase/try out? (same questions for Duke if he's open to answering questions too)

- The Duke says his new favourite implement is the new full length paddle we got. He likes it because it works well, and makes me really feel the sting.
- His least favourite is the rug beater because it tends to leave welts.
(Okay, so I find this slightly funny. He likes the paddle because it hurts me, but doesn’t like the rug beater because it hurts me ;), okay, so I do know he means one hurts and the other one actually causes damage, as he puts it, but still. hehe)
- He had always wanted to try a ping pong paddle, but now that we have the new pocket paddle, he’s quite happy with it, and does not really have a new item yet to wish for. :)

- I don’t know if I have a favourite implement. Maybe if we owned a feather duster!  ;) Or a pompom. hehehe
- My least favourite would be the loopy, rug beater, and slightly behind those, the heavy wooden spoon. They all hurt a lot, and the first two can leave raised bruises that can hurt for a few days. They really sting, and even though except for the welts they don’t hurt afterwards, they are REALLY hard to take during the spanking, and I often find myself getting out of position.
- As for an implement to try... hmmm... I’ve spent so much time dreaming of a paddle, that I’m not sure what to want next either.  :) I think my next want would be a paddle still, but one stencilled with a design that we pick out, make it more personalized.  :) That..., or if the paddle ever proves less effective, a Lexan paddle. But for now... NO WAY. HAHAHA

From Tricia: I do have a question for you though. If you could be any animal, what would you be? What would your HoH be?

I'd be a house cat!  Seriously.  Lay around all day, bathe in the sun, food on demand adn they get to walk all over their owners, litearlly.  What's not to love!?!?!?! :)  Ah, what a life. :)

The Duke would be a bird, so that he could fly. :)  I was actually surprised by this answer, I thought he'd pick something big and tough, you know, like a lion, or bear. :)

If you have more questions, please feel free to ask. :)  This is fun. :)


  1. Interesting answers from both of you! Thanks! It's fun to learn more about one another in these Q&A's. ;)

    1. I am glad that you liked. And it is fun to learn about each other. :) I'm liking this. :)

  2. Hey Es May...Take the word Lexan out of your vocabulary! No, no, do not want one of those!!!!

    I'm not sure how long you have been married but my question is: Do you think that if you had known about it when you were first married, you could have successfully incorporated DD into your marriage?


    1. I really don't want one, don't think we'll ever own one, and now seeing your response, I'm even more afraid of it than I ever was. You know, aside from this post I've never even thought about having one, but couldn't think of what would be more severe than what we have now. So I'll listen, that word has never been, and now for sure will never be, part of my vocabulary. :)

  3. Hi Es May, great answers! I dont know how many spankings I've had over not going to bed when told, or going to bed and playing with my phone!

    My question is what is a positive change you have noticed in yourself and in the Duke since embracing ttwd?


    1. I think I might stay up later just to test out his resolve. :) He's been struggling with being consistent because he doesn't want to be unfair to me. Okay, I honestly wouldn't do it, but that doesn't mean I'm not tempted! ;)


    1. I actually don't think I would. Thank you for the warning, as I said to Cat above, I won't mention it again. :) I am thankful though for you guys warning me of it. I'm not sure I realized how much they could be dangerous. Sometimes we need that, the feedback from everyone here. Thank you for worrying about us. :) {{{HUGS}}}

  5. I'm a little late reading. These are great answers, thanks for sharing them. :-)

    1. I don't think anyone is ever really late for reading. We read when we can. :) And thank you, glad you liked the answers. :)


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