tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post7752329109425661010..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: Stress Relief Spankings, Need To Make A Note Of ThatUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-73998500899021532702013-06-12T19:25:53.603-03:002013-06-12T19:25:53.603-03:00I have a friend that sends me the PCOS review ever...I have a friend that sends me the PCOS review every week or two, or however often it comes out. :) It's said often for a long time that giving up grains seems to help PCOS suffers the most along with exercise. Both are key. So I fell off the wagon on the weekend, and readying things so that hopefully tomorrow is my day back on. My parents are here for the weekend, so going to think tonight about if I want to start tomorrow, or Monday. But once I start back up, I don't want to stop, so that is why I'll think it over. But I am definitely doing it again, I felt so great, but the first couple days ARE hard.<br /><br />And the Duke is so great.:) I don't always appreciate him near enough. I think the visual was great.:) I'll have to see how it affects things from here on in.:)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-35384986924849511902013-06-12T19:23:02.742-03:002013-06-12T19:23:02.742-03:00LOL that is what I need to do, STOP WORRYING. LO...LOL that is what I need to do, STOP WORRYING. LOL I'll work on that. ;) And thank you, going to keep plugging at it, and hoping more comes off.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-20196701820770352592013-06-12T14:18:20.945-03:002013-06-12T14:18:20.945-03:00Hi EsMay,
Wow! Congratulations! 8 1/2 pounds in a...Hi EsMay,<br /><br />Wow! Congratulations! 8 1/2 pounds in a week! That's always exciting when you find what works for you (everyone is so different). <br /><br />(I've got to try that no grains thing since I have pcos too - but I'm always worried that my age will work against me, lol. Where did you find that info? Just curious - maybe I could read up on it too.)<br /><br />And that's really great that the Duke took care of you like he did; and the reaffirmation he received when he saw in his parent's marriage what he doesn't want to see in your marriage. I think it's helpful to have a visual, whether it's a positive or a negative, to keep us on track. <br /><br />:) CaliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-84070313774107890962013-06-12T12:52:46.678-03:002013-06-12T12:52:46.678-03:00I know how you feel about wondering if they do DD ...I know how you feel about wondering if they do DD for our sake, or for them too. I worry about that a lot, but then I realize that I need to STOP worrying, lol. A lot easier than it sounds right?<br /><br />Try to just let go, and let him take the reins. It certainly sounds like he wants to.<br /><br />And good for you with the weight loss. :) CongratsKenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-12347010322166317842013-06-12T09:11:15.169-03:002013-06-12T09:11:15.169-03:00Oh Missy, I so could not do no carbs at all. Wow....Oh Missy, I so could not do no carbs at all. Wow. That must really limit what you are able to eat? Well, it's probably good he's not totally doing it my way, or I'd feel like I was topping from the bottom. :) <br /><br />I will try to take it easy. :) I do feel like I might still be recovering. Still tired more than I should be. I'll keep working at getting better. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-24219448884085601952013-06-12T09:09:15.573-03:002013-06-12T09:09:15.573-03:00Well, to be honest, I'm usually pretty good ab...Well, to be honest, I'm usually pretty good about asking for a spanking when I need one. I think this time was because we'd stopped the maintenance spankings, so it's been a few weeks since I'd been spanked. So when things started to spin out of control for me, I didn't even think about DD being the answer. I think now that I realized this important fact, it'll be easier to remember next time. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-29696619228475390012013-06-12T09:07:15.750-03:002013-06-12T09:07:15.750-03:00It felt weird asking him, but I really felt he nee...It felt weird asking him, but I really felt he needed it. In a way I think it helped him too, but I definitely received the most benefit I think. :) I do think the Duke is growing in seeing that he does want this as well. I hope it keeps growing. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-91222102072104944082013-06-12T09:05:53.393-03:002013-06-12T09:05:53.393-03:00Thank you. I really wish I had realized I needed ...Thank you. I really wish I had realized I needed the reset earlier, would have made everything so much easier to deal with. Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-54299023609081371362013-06-12T09:05:20.171-03:002013-06-12T09:05:20.171-03:00I tried to pull consent as well once. Not for me,...I tried to pull consent as well once. Not for me, but I felt it was putting too much pressure on him. But he wouldn't let me. Grain free just means that you take grains out. All I'm avoiding is bread, pasta, rice and corn, and anything like that.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-56647670385368353372013-06-12T09:03:58.263-03:002013-06-12T09:03:58.263-03:00The mind does work in mysterious ways.:) And you ...The mind does work in mysterious ways.:) And you are right, sometimes it can be harder than other to see what the Duke is doing for this, but that doesn't mean he isn't doing anything. If I look, I can see the differences and the effort.<br /><br />I'll try to not work too hard. :) And I hope to start again today or tomorrow with the no grains. I was really feeling so good after a few days off of them, and need to get back to that. It's just so much more work though to prepare something without grains. lolEs Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-86213037159578930072013-06-12T08:31:24.984-03:002013-06-12T08:31:24.984-03:00Hey you :)
First of all, well do e in the weight ...Hey you :)<br /><br />First of all, well do e in the weight loss. I'm the other way round, I can't eat carbs or I put on weight, so I don't eat any, at all :)<br /><br />Glad you did ask for the spanking and that it helped. Sometimes we just can't see the forest for the trees :) keep at it, it's working well, you just need to believe in it and trust x<br /><br />Yes we all get the feeling sometimes that they're only doing it for us, but if you look closely you realise that's not the case, even if they don't do it OUR way, they're still doing it, THEIR way x <br /><br />Take it easy honey, it sounds like you still need to recover from all the illnesses xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21579331742781637262013-06-12T08:09:40.658-03:002013-06-12T08:09:40.658-03:00kudos to you kiddo for finely asking for what you ...kudos to you kiddo for finely asking for what you want, needed and realizing that your man is there for you. Now the big question of the day for me is are you going to continue to ask him for his help when you are out of sorts or are you going to slowly go into a funk and be unhappy until you really get a hard spanking. <br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-39946212408998407992013-06-12T06:26:44.203-03:002013-06-12T06:26:44.203-03:00Hi EsMay,
Good on you for going to the Duke and a...Hi EsMay,<br /><br />Good on you for going to the Duke and asking, especially since it was something you thought he needed and you didn't. I'm so glad you recognised that you needed it as well and that you got the release you needed. I'm so happy that you are feeling reset. Spanking sometimes can be the perfect stress buster.<br /><br />I think most of us can relate to feeling as though our HoH is doing this for us, rather than it being something he wants. Sometimes this is the case in the beginning. However, once they start to see the benefits, it becomes something they equally want. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-91814131184345829792013-06-12T01:24:45.532-03:002013-06-12T01:24:45.532-03:00i feel this way too, sometimes. like i need to be ...i feel this way too, sometimes. like i need to be spanked to reset everything. it's odd in a way, but it really does work. i'm so happy for you two. :)<br /><br />hugs,<br />m.maryannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14039657944100565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21204001983948650682013-06-12T00:04:32.224-03:002013-06-12T00:04:32.224-03:00I know how you feel. I sometimes think my H is ju...I know how you feel. I sometimes think my H is just doing DD for my sake. But then when I tried pulling consent he got so upset and realized himself how much he does like it. They just seem to want it at a different pace then what we want. Grain free diet? I've never heard of it, I will have to check that out.<br />KimAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349584751055182836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-35786298709078487672013-06-11T23:07:51.446-03:002013-06-11T23:07:51.446-03:00You know your prayers were answered right? So you...You know your prayers were answered right? So you focused on the spanking for Duke's sake, but perhaps that was just your coping mechanism. The mind works in mysterious ways.<br /><br />I too have felt in the past that Barney was doing 'this' for me. He thought so too, but again his coping mechanism. Open your eyes a bit, or perhaps squint, you can see things that Duke is doing for ttwd. They may not be big and boisterous, but they are most likely there if you look at it with the correct mindset.<br /><br />Don't work too hard missy! You've been sick for soo long too often. Good luck in kicking grains to the curb. They are my crutch!<br />williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.com