tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post3088630073928049715..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: Weird Maintenance + 6 F.ree E.booksUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-54440768438802182332013-02-20T09:31:43.167-04:002013-02-20T09:31:43.167-04:00Hehehe, no worries. It gets us all, even at the b...Hehehe, no worries. It gets us all, even at the best of times. ;)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-25279423089029440312013-02-20T08:37:00.503-04:002013-02-20T08:37:00.503-04:00Lol I'm telling you, don't know where my h...Lol I'm telling you, don't know where my head is, I must have had a quick look and posted quickly and forgot. <br />It's old age, it's getting to me lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-40589709610877945962013-02-16T09:03:52.876-04:002013-02-16T09:03:52.876-04:00Will it make you feel better or worse if I were to...Will it make you feel better or worse if I were to tell you that you aren't late? ;) *scroll up* ;)<br /><br />I just asked my husband about what you said here, and he and I are going to talk it over more. I think I might need the same, to go otk again.<br /><br />I am glad my hubby is not the only one that double checks the chores! *WHEW* hehehe, and it's true, it's a learning process for both, and that helps a lot to remember that. :) Thank you for the reminder, I sometimes forget.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-66430323429650839272013-02-16T09:00:38.663-04:002013-02-16T09:00:38.663-04:00Thank you, I am glad that you like the books. :) ...Thank you, I am glad that you like the books. :) And hope some of them were still free for you when you went to get them. :) <br /><br />I think that may be why I couldn't settle, he is the leader, but he's been a little lax on follow through, I've only had a couple of punishment spankings in the past three months, so we talked last night and will talk some more about how to be consistent in calling me on it when I disobey. I don't intentionally, but I need to have the follow through even then.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-72116322351295197052013-02-16T04:33:19.529-04:002013-02-16T04:33:19.529-04:00Hi Hun
Sorry late again. Just don't know what ...Hi Hun<br />Sorry late again. Just don't know what I've done the last couple of days lol<br />I hope you feeling better. I get a bit sulky and/or feisty sometimes after a spanking. Usually I get put back otk at this stage :(<br />But I do think its normal. I've read others mention it before. <br /><br />I think your hubs is just trying to help you remember your chores. I get the thousand question and answer when he get home from work.:)<br />Chin up we're all still very new to this life and still learning, we as well a our HOHs :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-24118584232742898072013-02-16T02:44:00.897-04:002013-02-16T02:44:00.897-04:00Thanks for the book links, that's awesome that...Thanks for the book links, that's awesome that you do that! It's very much appreciated :)<br /><br />And as far as maintenance, not so weird really. Think about the purpose of maintenance..it is an affirmation of roles, who is the leader, the HoH, and who submits to his authority? So while it was not what you are used to, he exerted his authority, you submitted gracefully, and it left you in a soft and submitted frame of mind. Sounds like pretty successful maintenance to me ;)<br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-90522321849511891172013-02-15T08:12:45.588-04:002013-02-15T08:12:45.588-04:00That could totally be it. I just wish I could get...That could totally be it. I just wish I could get over this cold. Have had it for two months now, and it is really draining me. :( We talked last night, and he told me that his reminders were out of love, and he totally believed I'd get them done. So that really helped. So we'll see how I handle it next time, and if it bothers me, I'm so going to ask him to have a list instead. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-45901979071523998462013-02-15T08:11:15.407-04:002013-02-15T08:11:15.407-04:00Thank you, Roz. :) I wish it were that, but sadl...Thank you, Roz. :) I wish it were that, but sadly I think it was that I couldn't get into the right head space, so I was more annoyed than released. :( Not sure what happened.<br /><br />You know, he read my blog last night, and told me that, that he was doing it to help me and care for me, not to make me feel like he didn't believe I would do it. So that really helped. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-62170172139751068772013-02-15T08:07:30.420-04:002013-02-15T08:07:30.420-04:00Yeah, I think he kind of likes me. ;) Being tucke...Yeah, I think he kind of likes me. ;) Being tucked in was wonderful, I won't lie. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-36929273868341578942013-02-15T07:55:50.014-04:002013-02-15T07:55:50.014-04:00Anything new in ttwd can feel a bit tricky and it ...Anything new in ttwd can feel a bit tricky and it sounds like your poor head is a bit overwhelmed with being tired and a bit under the weather.<br /><br />Could he make you a list and leave it somewhere that you can "check" things off when you've done them? Then all the reminders wouldn't play on you in a negative way.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-64980185387976157192013-02-15T06:13:44.302-04:002013-02-15T06:13:44.302-04:00Hi Es May, Hope you had a lovely Valentines Day :)...Hi Es May, Hope you had a lovely Valentines Day :) I think it's lovely he tucked you in.<br /><br />You know, it's not uncommon to be a bit feisty sometimes after a spanking. I have certainly done that and I think it's all to do with feeling safe and cared for perhaps. Possibly a bit of release too post spanking.<br /><br />I think his checking in is his way of protecting and caring for you. Not because he thinks you will forget to do something or not follow through with instructions.<br /><br />I hope you get rid of the cold soon.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-33135390200227899452013-02-15T05:26:58.509-04:002013-02-15T05:26:58.509-04:00Oh EsMay
It's sweet, he cares a lot about you....Oh EsMay<br />It's sweet, he cares a lot about you. Being tucked in sounds nice. Enjoy it xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-79168097145328630542013-02-14T22:56:12.777-04:002013-02-14T22:56:12.777-04:00I admitted to him tonight that if he wanted to mak...I admitted to him tonight that if he wanted to make it a habit, I wouldn't object. ;) And you are right, that is exactly how I felt. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-92003619059022329392013-02-14T20:19:34.182-04:002013-02-14T20:19:34.182-04:00I love being tucked in :) it feels completely awes...I love being tucked in :) it feels completely awesome and safe. <br /><br />CallieCalliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08722173496181331492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-57215102052097441892013-02-14T19:38:26.322-04:002013-02-14T19:38:26.322-04:00Thank you, and Happy Valentine's Day to you to...Thank you, and Happy Valentine's Day to you too! :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-78702583262990493442013-02-14T19:01:39.729-04:002013-02-14T19:01:39.729-04:00aww...being tucked in..how wonderful! Happy Valent...aww...being tucked in..how wonderful! Happy Valentines Day Es May :)<br /><br />HugsHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-75586886528016798682013-02-14T16:03:40.570-04:002013-02-14T16:03:40.570-04:00Happy Valentine's Day to you too! :) Hehehe.....Happy Valentine's Day to you too! :) Hehehe... you know, it was sweet. It was the one thing I REALLY liked about it. :) I hope I get over it too, two months now... really, how long can it last? I feel I shouldn't have even asked that!? lol And I'm glad you like the links... I worried when I started putting them up if it was a good idea, but I love reading about marriage, and learning what I can. The odd book is off its rocker, but mostly there is something good to be learned from each book. :) I hope to do premarital counselling in my church after a few more years of marriage. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-21058872942918070792013-02-14T13:39:06.350-04:002013-02-14T13:39:06.350-04:00Happy Valentine's Day Es May! The being tucke...Happy Valentine's Day Es May! The being tucked in sounds really sweet actually. I hope you get over your cold soon and are feeling better. Thanks for the ebook links! ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com