tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post1416310064407226130..comments2023-06-13T11:57:48.024-03:00Comments on Submitting To Be Led: Getting Caught UpUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-36071044332921355072013-02-05T07:53:42.382-04:002013-02-05T07:53:42.382-04:00It was so hard, but I'm glad that it touched p...It was so hard, but I'm glad that it touched people in the end, and hopefully encouraged everyone to donate to the cause. :) And THANK YOU... I have been feeling really guilty, feeling I took control from the spanking... I feel like I should have been able to take the pain like so many women in our community are able to... I feel like I should be able to surrender no matter how hard he spanks. I am praying I can get to that point. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-75951038188177122352013-02-05T07:48:13.314-04:002013-02-05T07:48:13.314-04:00I have my weekend starting tomorrow, so that'l...I have my weekend starting tomorrow, so that'll be good to have two days of rest, well besides three hours of chores. :) I did talk to him last night, saying that sometimes I just will be really off, and it's alright for him to take me in hand at those times to help correct it... we'll see how that works for us. :) Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-62807655328075589952013-02-05T07:34:58.867-04:002013-02-05T07:34:58.867-04:00Es May,
I too can't fathom the grief you are t...Es May,<br />I too can't fathom the grief you are trying to process even two years later. Please be gentle with yourself and find a time to rest, even if it means taking a couple days off of work. I know, I know...I'm not good at that either.<br /><br />About the spankings...I think it's healthy and good when we tell our men about fear. I know it felt like you took control away but they need to recognize when we are beyond ourselves in a way that isn't good for us. It sounds like you got it settled out later on. <br /><br />Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-76781603263129922202013-02-05T00:01:27.364-04:002013-02-05T00:01:27.364-04:00Thank you, it certainly was nerve racking to get u...Thank you, it certainly was nerve racking to get up in front of everyone, and glad I did it without passing out! ;) I think it did help him see things differently, he hasn't seemed as worried since then, and hoping the worry stays away. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-33242072942924284032013-02-05T00:00:08.929-04:002013-02-05T00:00:08.929-04:00Thank you, Lucy Lou. I have always wanted more co...Thank you, Lucy Lou. I have always wanted more communication in our marriage, and it's amazing how DD is helping me in my need for this. :) It has helped our bond even more. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-15081417265207239672013-02-04T23:58:31.637-04:002013-02-04T23:58:31.637-04:00Thank you. :) That is a beautiful way to put it.....Thank you. :) That is a beautiful way to put it... that it's out of those mistakes that we gain the most growth. I'm going to remember that one. There is so much truth to it! Thank you. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-84513128727165295722013-02-04T23:56:32.314-04:002013-02-04T23:56:32.314-04:00Thank you so much. :) That is my hope, to keep fr...Thank you so much. :) That is my hope, to keep from repeating the same mistakes in the future. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-41114754719300935472013-02-04T17:14:47.715-04:002013-02-04T17:14:47.715-04:00Es May, my heart goes out to you. I think you wer...Es May, my heart goes out to you. I think you were so brave to stand up in front of a whole bunch of people and speak about something so real, so painful, so raw, especially so close to the anniversary of your son passing.<br /><br />It sounds like you're going a great job in the communication department with your husband as well. I like the question you asked him. It probably helped him to look at things a bit differently and to be able to move on.<br /><br />You're in my thoughts and prayers! (((hugs)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-30824203039530466842013-02-04T13:19:26.328-04:002013-02-04T13:19:26.328-04:00Oh hunny
I hope you feeling ok. My thoughts are wi...Oh hunny<br />I hope you feeling ok. My thoughts are with you. <br />You did great on your talk, it must have been so hard. <br />I don't think it's taking control of DD if you need to communicate that the spanking Is harder than the limit you have. <br />Glad things worked out though xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-63995958324289429492013-02-04T07:33:58.700-04:002013-02-04T07:33:58.700-04:00Hi Es May......
I am so sorry that you had to end...Hi Es May......<br /><br />I am so sorry that you had to endure the pain of losing a child....no words really seem adequate here. I will be thinking of you today...and praying that God grants you some peace.<br /><br />And....we all make mistakes..obviously. The good thing is you all talked them out....and that is the biggest part of all of this...communicating.<br /><br />Hugs....<br /><br />~LucyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05065154899098398575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-14318238009087909132013-02-04T06:07:44.591-04:002013-02-04T06:07:44.591-04:00I am so sorry sweetie. it sounds as though you ar...I am so sorry sweetie. it sounds as though you are communicating well and working together to get through this difficult time. Keep communicating and leaning on each other.<br /><br />Good on you for communicating your need to your husband and both of you for working through it together to get to where you needed to be. As Sara said, I love the question you asked you husband. We learn and grow and make mistakes as part of the process. Often, it's out of those mistakes that we gain the most growth.<br /><br />I'm glad your presentation went well. It sounds as though it was very well received.<br /><br />Thinking of you sending you huge (((hugs)))<br />Roz<br /><br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-1186503542689493722013-02-04T05:40:33.769-04:002013-02-04T05:40:33.769-04:00Communication is so important and as long as you g...Communication is so important and as long as you guys talk about your mistakes you can find a way to keep them from happening in the future.<br /><br />I'm so sorry about your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way today.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-70130212636511662192013-02-03T22:54:51.899-04:002013-02-03T22:54:51.899-04:00Thank you... looking back, I like the question I a...Thank you... looking back, I like the question I asked him too... he is very afraid of making mistakes, especially when it comes to me, and my emotional and physical safety. I'm trying to get him to see that I do need his protection, but in the learning, there will be mistakes, and I'll be okay as long as he's there to hold me if I am hurt. And thank you, I am sorry for your loss too. {{{HUGS}}} That is a lot to lose, your whole family that you had growing up.Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879991995070741632.post-70762871459946440292013-02-03T22:06:15.277-04:002013-02-03T22:06:15.277-04:00Es May, I have lost both parents and my only sibli...Es May, I have lost both parents and my only sibling, but I still can't imagine the pain of losing a child. Mourning takes it's own time, and anniversaries are very hard. <br /><br />It sounds like you and your husband are working hard on communicating, and I really liked your question to your husband about making mistakes. There's no way to try new things, to risk and grow, without making mistakes now and again! <br /><br />Good for you both for working through this, and I am so very sorry for your loss!<br /><br /><br />Sarafindingsarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07352980311488921341noreply@blogger.com