So, I've found that bedroom dynamics really play into our relationship. And not just in the sense that I find the Duke so incredibly sexy when he leads. :) Or that I find it hard to think about other things when he has so much of my attention.
What I'm finding about bedroom dynamics is that it helps us when the Duke has lost his stride, and has forgotten to lead. All it takes is a day he wants to be extra dominating in the bedroom, and then he likes that feel of control and power, that dominance tends to pour out into other areas. Sometimes just for a day, sometimes for a lot longer. It's always nice to see him leading by his own devices without my asking if he could help.
Do you find that in your own relationship? That if you can get your spouse/partner to sink into their role in one area, they'll start doing so in other areas as well? What seems to naturally spark their interest to return to their role?