So, I know months ago, it was asked on someone's blog if anyone had submission exercises that their spouse used on them to really help them feel submissive, and at the time, many people said they didn't really have any ideas... but we've all grown in our relationships since then, and hoping this is okay to ask.
I struggle lately with keeping my submissive mindset. I spend so much time in charge outside of home life, that it can be a bit difficult somedays to make the switch when I'm with the Duke again. When this happens, the Duke's natural tendency is to let me lead as this is how it always used to work for us. He's getting better at standing up, but I feel we need some fresh ideas on how to help him keep his HOH hat on, and for me to find that submissive mindset to not take charge by mistake.
It can be something small, or huge, but I'd love to hear your ideas. He can already tell me to do housework or exercise, but I mean... something besides that that can be done at the drop of a hat.
If you have ANY suggestions, I'd love to hear them. :) We are not very good at thinking outside of the box, and would love any ideas you have, or tales of things that definitely worked for you or your spouse. :)
I hope you all have a great weekend, and hopefully that thing I wrote about the other day, I'll have processed through it more and can write more about next week. :)