I can't remember which blog I saw this on a month or so ago, but I remember it clearly now.
She was writing about DD and said that her husband was in charge and "I know it, he knows it, even the dog knows it." When she said it, I thought it was so funny, I laughed so hard.
Well, I'm here to say that even my cat knows it. :( And I don't find it funny. :( Ok, a little, but mostly I'm actually a bit sad.
I have two cats, and they always sleep with me, cuddle with me, and want to be around me. Sometimes they'll hang out with my husband, but very rarely. Well, I think our youngest cat has noticed the difference in our order of ranking. He nows cuddles daily with my husband... and will only cuddle with me if I go to where he is, or my husband is at work on my days off.
I like the not being mauled part... but I'm actually a bit disappointed to lose this bond with one of my babies. I believe he nows sees my husband as the alpha and aligning himself with him. The TRAITOR. :( He's lucky I still love him! I just miss him is all.
On a side note... got a spanking last night just because I couldn't get my head out of a pathetic funk. Two spankings in two days. And I'd been hoping to do the two week maintenace challenge to bring Hubby and I closer together... Yeah, I think I'm way too much of a wimp for that...
PS F.REE Dr. Gary Chapman book for those of you that love him! :) I have not read this book, but have liked some of his other works, including "The Five Love Languages"
Please remember that prices on Amazon can change without notice, so if you want this book for free, please remember to check that it still says $0.00 before clicking to buy. Hope you enjoy.
"The 4 Seasons of Marriage" by Dr. Gary Chapman
- It is now listed free through til Feb 16/13 at amazon.